Great-Bliss-Tantric-Sex-and-the-Path-to-Inner-Awakening

Introduction
“At the center of the maṇḍala, oh beautiful one, I am together with you,
impassioned with Great Passion, the essence of Great Bliss.”
- Hevajra Tantra
Tantra is not only a set of practices but a lifestyle. It is a
way of living freely, passionately, and authentically, fully
focused on the present yet with the ultimate goal of
blissful perfection always in mind. Buddhism is to a great
extent a group path. You take refuge in the Buddha, the
Dharma and the Saṅgha, and rely on your fellow
practitioners to support you following the path to inner
awakening.
You live in a Tantric universe, but in your ordinary life
you do not live Tantrically – that’s why you suffer.
Living Tantrically means being richly engaged in the
world, taking in all the beauty around you. Moving
sensuously and erotically, you boldly say “Yes!” to life.
You do not let your thoughts rule you, but expand your
being into an inner wisdom. You allow your emotions
arise fully without judgement, but always taking
responsibility for them and not blaming others for what
you feel. You do not allow anything ever to stop you
from loving strongly. You see all of life is an ocean of erotic heart energy, and you swim in it as
the greatest gift you will ever know. The more you allow nature’s primal energies to flow
through you, the more your own erotic and blissful energies flow too.
You perform all activities as the deity. You visualize yourself as the goddess Vajravilāsinī or the
god Padmanarteśvara throughout the day, feeling one with her. Bathing is a consecration by the
gods and goddesses. Eating is a sacrificial offering to your deity. Sleep is union with the Clear
Light. You experience yourself and the world blissfully, and your work is to give bliss to others.
The Tantric lifestyle is ideally supported in community. The Tibetan master Jamgön Kongtrul
honors the power of group practice, joyfully encouraging Tantric practitioners to see that, “The
greatness for both self and others is to become enlightened together with the community of
practitioners as one group.” You are the greatest gift that you could ever give to another person.
Your wisdom, love, and powers are incalculable. But that gift of your own true self too often lies
hidden behind your inner obstacles. As you purify yourself through Tantric practice, the gift that
you are becomes manifest, and you can give yourself effortlessly. Supported in your practice as
part of a Tantric community, the pleasure is greater and the rewards greater still.
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