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WHEN YOU CROSS CULTURES - World Evangelical Alliance

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148 <strong>WHEN</strong> <strong>YOU</strong> <strong>CROSS</strong> <strong>CULTURES</strong><br />

CHAPTER NINETEEN<br />

EMOTIONAL FATIGUE<br />

When stress is prolonged, our faculties can suffer an overload. Emotional<br />

fatigue overcomes us. It is essential for workers to recognise the<br />

symptoms of overload. Certain symptoms may be peculiar to some and not to<br />

others. However, as often is the case with conscientious Christian workers,<br />

blind spots are common and the signs of overload are either unrecognised or<br />

neglected. As a result, workers have to be laid aside for lengthy periods of<br />

time in order to recuperate.<br />

Emotional fatigue does not happen only in cross-cultural situations.<br />

Christian workers and leaders in general, who are driven by the ministry, usually<br />

experience some degree of fatigue some time during their careers. Dawson<br />

Trotman, founder of The Navigators experienced this fatigue. His wife Lila<br />

often had to bear his burdens too.<br />

Case Histories of Two Mission Leaders<br />

DAWSON TROTMAN<br />

When Daws finally recognised he was tired, he was impatient with the<br />

fact. He noticed he could not face some of his daily work or go through his<br />

mail. The aversion seemed temporary yet deep down was a gnawing realisation<br />

he would have to relinquish personal control of some things and delegate<br />

them. What taxed him most was counselling and building in the lives of those<br />

at the Glen, helping them hurdle major hindrances in becoming fruitful servants<br />

of Christ. Alone with Lila in their room one Friday, he fell across the bed<br />

sobbing, clear evidence of emotional fatigue. His doctor told him he had<br />

narrowly missed nervous collapse and must give up all responsibility for at<br />

least a month. 1<br />

J OSWALD SANDERS<br />

When J Oswald Sanders was General Director of the Overseas<br />

Missionary Fellowship, he and his wife Edith experienced fatigue. In 1964,<br />

both of them faced a period of increased difficulty. 2 For ten years, Oswald<br />

Sanders had been driving himself hard, and Edith had tried to keep pace.<br />

Both experienced<br />

1 Betty Lee Skinner (1974), Daws: The Story of Dawson Trotman, Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, page 361.<br />

2 Ron and Gwen Roberts (1989), To Fight Better, Great Britain: Highland Books and OMF, pages 136-139.

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