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SELF ASSESSMENT 161 Closely related to the joy of receiving praise is the expression of one’s thankfulness. Personally, I have learned precious lessons from my wife concerning a thankful spirit. She constantly expresses her gratitude in spontaneous ways. She has taught me the importance of expressing thanks as well as the receiving of thanks. Thanksgiving should characterise our lives. Verbal expressions of thanks should be encouraged. Thanksgiving enables a person to overcome the inner tensions which stress brings. In an Asian culture, thanksgiving is an important trait. It is often shown by the giving and receiving of gifts. Asians have polite ways of showing gratitude that may be misunderstood by others as false humility. All of us need to learn to receive gratitude and to express gratitude humbly and honestly. We also need to receive with gratitude the gifts and abilities that God has blessed us with, and use them for the building up of others. We need to have a sane estimate of these abilities and develop and use them for God’s glory. HANDLING WEAKNESSES AND LIMITATIONS Our weaknesses and limitations should cause us to lean more dependently on God and to take strength from His grace each day. Some friends who attended a seminar were encouraged by this statement - “Please be patient with me. God is not finished with me yet!” Like Paul who experienced weaknesses, we need to learn the lessons of God’s sufficient grace throughout our lives. God’s grace is sufficient to meet our inadequacies and limitations. For those with a low self-esteem, the following exercise may be helpful. It was proposed by Ruth Myers in a seminar on stress. 1. Write down the things which you feel about yourself. Write them down whether you think they are true or not. For example, I am not: well-educated outgoing comfortable with people ... or I am: too emotional too rigid always dependent on people ... 2. Prayerfully ask God to show you where your view of yourself would have distorted the facts. God’s grace is also sufficient to meet all your inner needs.
162 WHEN YOU CROSS CULTURES 3. Examine your feelings and unmet needs. Write them down. I need to feel loved I need others to express their appreciation I need to stop blaming myself ... When your basic needs are unmet, especially the need to be loved and to be able to love others, then other needs become excessive. You will try to meet these in unrealistic or demanding ways. 4. Pray over your list. You may also need to share your feelings with a mature godly person who can help you.
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