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Building a strong bond and secure attachment between your infant and yourself
(and his other primary caregivers) is one of the most important goals of infancy.
Your baby will develop trust, love, and security when you respond to his needs
consistently and lovingly.
Did you know that you will change your baby’s diaper over 5,000 times (roughly 6
times a day until he is 30 months old)? That is why everyday routines such as feeding,
dressing, and diaper changing provide such a great opportunity to give your infant
one-on-one personal attention!
The more you talk to your baby (or sign and gesture to a baby with hearing
impairments), the more she will learn and the better the two of you will bond.
Listen to and imitate your baby’s sounds. Sing to your baby and enjoy finger plays
and nursery rhymes with them, such as “Peek-a-Boo,” “Patty Cake, Patty Cake,” and
“This Little Piggy.”
Have a “goodbye routine” with your infant even if she seems not to notice when
you leave. Over time, this routine will help her feel more secure because she will
know that you will not disappear without warning.
“Stranger anxiety,” or reacting negatively to someone unfamiliar, is normal and a sign
that your child has formed a strong and positive attachment to you. Be patient—it
will take time for your baby to become comfortable with a visiting relative, friend,
babysitter, or a new teacher.
Comfort your crying baby as soon as possible. Pick him up, rock him, and use words
to express what your baby may be feeling. For example, “You felt sad when Mommy
changed your diaper and put you on the rug. I had to wash my hands. Now I can
give you your bottle.”
Note: The internet is a good resource for many nursery rhymes. Check
www.nurseryrhymes4u.com for a list of common nursery rhymes and their lyrics.
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