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Warriors in Peace Operations - Strategic Studies Institute - U.S. Army

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us<strong>in</strong>ess tak<strong>in</strong>g their husbands away for 12 months. I could<br />

not argue their po<strong>in</strong>ts—they did not want to listen anyway.<br />

It was all very frustrat<strong>in</strong>g, especially when it was obvious so<br />

many soldiers had failed to properly prepare their families<br />

for any type of operational deployment, much less Bosnia for<br />

12 months.<br />

From the start, the Family Support Groups (FSG)<br />

formed a strong and cohesive team to provide requisite care<br />

for family members. Foremost was educat<strong>in</strong>g people on<br />

where we were go<strong>in</strong>g, why we were go<strong>in</strong>g, and how long we<br />

would be there. FSG events occurred on a weekly basis<br />

start<strong>in</strong>g prior to the deployment and <strong>in</strong>cluded such<br />

activities as monthly newsletters, videos, fund raisers, and<br />

a series of social and educational events to <strong>in</strong>terest families<br />

and ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong> morale.<br />

My greatest frustration was the <strong>in</strong>itial reluctance of<br />

many families to jo<strong>in</strong> the FSG circle. Some opted to go home<br />

to the United States rather than wait out the deployment <strong>in</strong><br />

Germany. I opposed such an approach <strong>in</strong> that it would<br />

remove the family from the <strong>in</strong>formation loop. Additionally,<br />

once the deployment was complete and the soldiers<br />

returned home to Baumholder, the United States<br />

Government was not go<strong>in</strong>g to transport family members<br />

back to Germany. Most families understood; however, at<br />

least six families ignored my pleas and left for the United<br />

States and home. In time, most of the families softened and<br />

entered <strong>in</strong>to the FSG circle as they discovered <strong>in</strong> hard times<br />

a renewed need for each other.<br />

Much to my chagr<strong>in</strong>, the battalion provided the cover<br />

story for the December 25, 1995, issue of <strong>Army</strong> Times,<br />

focus<strong>in</strong>g on the family aspect of the Bosnia mission. My<br />

friends from the <strong>Army</strong> Times visited at the height of our<br />

deployment and, to my surprise, told an accurate story. I<br />

was <strong>in</strong>itially concerned they would tell the wrong story and<br />

make th<strong>in</strong>gs worse than they actually were. However, they<br />

published an accurate portrayal of a major operational<br />

deployment and the impact on families. The writers<br />

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