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Lisa, but she still calls Lisa “he” and “Ron” as those are the terms that she is
used to call her by. Yuri in the form of Harry as well as Ron’s and Draco’s
players have known each other from the very beginnings of this Harry Potter
RPG and know about events in each other’s daily life, but they are simply
“Craco, Harry, and Ron” to each other (Craco being the nickname the RPG
players use for Draco – Yuri mentions that it might have been an OOC typo,
initially). When Yuri tells me about something Draco’s player writes about in
her “private” LiveJournal, or rather her non-game-related journal, she may
refer to her occasionally by her LiveJournal username, but will usually tell me
that “Craco” or “Draco” posted this link or that article.
At the same time, the flirting in OOC is not so much a flirting of the
characters (as the only flirting in this game for IC consists of clumsy teenager
exchanges), but more so a flirting as players. In other words: though flirtatious
OOC exchanges are exchanges between players rather than characters, they
are also operating with the characters’ gender rather than with the players’.
Yuri explained it in the following manner:
It’s just like we’re wearing silly masks and we’re running
around, but it’s still…It doesn’t mean anything, because
it’s not like… it’s just like friendship; Do you know how
little kids touch each other and the way monkeys do? It’s
kind of like that. It’s friendship, but it’s safe cuz it’s online.
Because it’d be weird and mary-sue-ish if [Yuri] was
flirting with Ron. It’s more like Harry!mun is flirting with
Ron!mun, but not like [Yuri] flirting with [Lisa]; it’s a sort
of different level.
The flirts and innuendo are, after all, not meant as a come-on to another player
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