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13. I will talk politely to everyone, and will serve Muslims with meals
as much as I can afford. {The Beloved Prophet ٖ
has said: Paradise is the reward for Hajj Mabrūr. He was asked,
‘Yā Rasūlallāĥ ٖ
! What makes a Hajj Mabrūr’
ٖ replied, ‘Polite talking and serving meal (to
He
others).’} (Shu’ab-ul-Īmān, vol. 3, pp. 479, Ḥadīš 4119)
14. If I face difficulties, I will show patience. (Ḥujjat-ul-Islam
Sayyidunā Imām Abū Ḥāmid Muhammad Bin Muhammad Bin
Muhammad Ghazālī ۡ
ۡ
has stated: If a Ḥājī suffers
a loss or gets into a trouble as regards his wealth or body,
he should show patience as it is a sign of Hajj Mabrūr.)
(Iḥyā-ul-‘Ulūm, vol. 1, pp. 354)
15. Behaving in a polite manner, I will serve my companions. I will
avoid anger and useless talking. If people said hurtful things, I
will tolerate them.
16. I will treat all the orthodox Arab Muslims politely (no matter
how harshly they treat me). (On page 1060 of Baĥār-e-Sharī’at,
volume 1, it is stated: Treat all the Arabs including the Bedouins
with extreme politeness. Even if they behave you harshly, endure
it with patience. Our Beloved and Blessed Prophet ٖ
has promised to intercede for the one displaying patience in
response to the harshness of the Arabs. Do not criticize the acts
of the dwellers of Makkaĥ and Madīnaĥ and those of any other
Arab. Do not even think ill of them in your heart as this is
beneficial in the worldly life as well as in the afterlife.)
17. I will be careful not to cause trouble to people even at crowded
places. If anyone causes me trouble I will have patience and
forgive him. {It is stated in a Ḥadīš that if a person holds back
his anger, Allah will prevent torment (from being inflicted