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Rafiq-ul-Haramayn 202
Walking hand in hand with wife
Question 6: If the husband and the wife when performing Ṭawāf or
Sa’ī hand in hand with each other feel lust, what will be the ruling
Answer: Dam will become Wājib for the one who feels lust. If both
of them have felt lust, both will have to pay a Dam each. If men
holding each others’ hands in the state of Iḥrām feel lust, there is
the same ruling.
Questions and answers about intercourse
Question 1: Can Hajj become even invalid due to intercourse
Answer: Yes. If a Muḥrim indulges in intercourse prior to the ritual
stay in ‘Arafāt, his Hajj will become invalid. He will have to pay
Dam and perform Hajj again as Qaḍā the very next year besides
performing the remaining rites of that invalid Hajj as usual.
(‘Ālamgīrī, vol. 1, pp. 244)
If the woman is also a Muḥrimaĥ, there is the same expiation for her.
If there is a risk of indulging in this act once again, it is advisable to
stay away from each other avoiding even seeing each other from the
commencement of the Iḥrām of Qaḍā to its end.
Question 2: If a person who is unaware of rulings indulges in
intercourse in ignorance, then
Answer: Whether someone indulges in intercourse forgetfully or
intentionally, willingly or under coercion, Hajj will become invalid
in all the cases and Dam will have to be paid. If he has intercourse
again at another time, another Dam will be Wājib. However, Dam
will not be Wājib if he abandons the intention of Hajj prior to his
indulgence in intercourse.