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• People are simply nicer to attractive women. If you go out
with a cute friend, you can see this painfully clearly. This
isn't to say that people are mean to unattractive women;
they aren't. It's more like you're invisible.
• You can't shop at a lot of normal stores. Many don't carry
plus-sizes, so you have to go to special stores for larger
women.
• You don't get hit on, you don't get people asking for your
number, you don't get people buying you drinks, you don't
get much attention of any kind really.
• You date online, and you get used to people telling you
they just aren't attracted to you.
• It's easier to be platonic friends with men because there's
little chance they'll end up sexually or romantically interested
in you.
• You get used to people giving you unsolicited advice about
your health and/or appearance. If you're fat or ugly, you
just aren't working hard enough at being otherwise.
• You either feel ashamed of how you look or you learn to
not care.
• People don't take pictures of you. Honestly. I know it
sounds weird, but I have very few pictures of myself from
the time when I was seriously overweight.
the good
While it can be extremely traumatic to go through the experiences
I've described here, there is actually a silver lining to it
all. Attractive women are treated well primarily because we as
a society objectify them. In a way, you get to dodge that bullet.
It hurts to feel invisible to the world, but it's also liberating.
You are free to simply exist as a person, and if you are able
to make the most of that, it can be a great opportunity for
spiritual growth.
The other big upside is that you have likely developed a
good personality and/or career in order to cope with the social
downsides of being unattractive. Combine this with the
fact that age, money, and time can go a long way towards
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