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males.
Hot-or-not is how we are taught to evaluate women. There
are individual exceptions, but the herd mentality is to value
hotness above all else. It is the primary way society judges
women.
For example, a woman having a "great personality" is
slang for being undesirable. no man is congratulated for having
a girlfriend/wife with a "great personality."
It is impossible for a woman to be praised for having a
"great personality."
For a sad honest picture of society, ask a sweet, smart,
funny, heavy woman about her love life.
Then consider the fact that in my high school, there was
a girl who abused laxatives over the summer to lose a lot of
weight. everyone knew this, but she looked hot. Her dating
life took off. Hotness outweighs bulimia.
Enough with the problem. Let's look at solutions:
You need to live much of your life in an echo chamber of
positive messages.
Stop consuming mainstream culture.
Turn off the TV. Rarely watch movies. Don't listen to pop
music. Don't read magazines. once you start paying close attention
to how women are portrayed, these media will lose
much of their appeal, anyway. There is a clear message that
hotness is a woman's primary worth.
one of the greatest tragedies of American (and increasingly
so, global) society is the fact that our culture is manufactured
by lovers of buxom, bronzed, Botoxed, bottle-blonde
bimbos. (even if women are intelligent, they won't be rewarded
for displaying it. It's irrelevant that Shakira is in MenSA.)
Hollywood is the most extreme example of praising females
almost exclusively for their looks. A female can earn an
acting award, but extreme hotness is a prerequisite to even
being considered.
Build your social world around common-interest niches.
There is a broad spectrum of how much emphasis people
place on attractiveness, so on a personal level, you have hopes
of finding a respectful partner and true friends who value you
for who you are, not how you look.
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