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the world is. Although they have differentiation, they lack<br />

a broader intellectual curiosity.<br />

• Bad teachers. Being a good significant other, you may become<br />

interested in their area of expertise. You may think<br />

learning about it from your partner is ideal. However, be<br />

forewarned: sometimes, the better one is at something,<br />

the harder it is to explain it. As an expert, it's easy to forget<br />

how hard it is in the beginning or at which points an<br />

amateur may get stuck. This can lead to frustration on<br />

both the part of the teacher and the student.<br />

• Snobbery. If you are not knowledgeable in their area, they<br />

can inadvertently make hurtful comments that reflect<br />

a disdain for your area of expertise. Watch out for this.<br />

Before you embark upon a serious relationship with this<br />

person, make sure they really respect you and what you do.<br />

love<br />

http://www.quora.com/l/boq-kat-li<br />

How do you know if you've found<br />

“the one”?<br />

Alison Stone, that's me. Just me.<br />

This is advice I gave a younger person who said she knew she<br />

wanted to marry her boyfriend because she "loved him." She<br />

thought that being "in love" meant she had found "the one."<br />

Are you a loving person? Because loving people are capable<br />

of loving lots of people in their lifetimes. You are likely to<br />

find many people pleasant, agreeable, exciting, and enjoyable.<br />

That doesn't mean you need to marry any of these people.<br />

At some point, you may find yourself loving a person who<br />

is particularly compatible with you. You find your ways of<br />

thinking work well together. You have similar values in life.<br />

You have similar goals for your future.<br />

Congratulations! You have found a potential life-mate.<br />

not "the one" by any means, but a really good one.<br />

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