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28<br />

ENVY IN LANGUAGE<br />

Were envy a fever, the world would have been dead long since. (There<br />

are German, Danish, Italian, Latin and Swedish versions of this proverb.)-If<br />

envy were an illness, the world would be a hospital.- He who<br />

would be without envy must not tell of his joy.-The envious die, envy is<br />

inherited.-The more kindness is shown to an envious man, the worse<br />

he becomes.<br />

This latter observation is particularly important because psychopathology<br />

has repeatedly confirmed it. The more one seeks to deprive<br />

the envious man of his ostensible reason for envy by giving him presents<br />

and doing him good turns, the more one demonstrates one's superiority<br />

and stresses how little the gift will be missed. Were one to strip oneself .<br />

of every possession, such a demonstration of goodness would still<br />

humiliate him so that his envy would be transferred from one's possessions<br />

to one's character. And if one were to raise him to one's own level,<br />

this artificially established equality would not make him in the least<br />

happy. He would again envy, firstly the benefactor's character, and<br />

secondly the recollection retained by the benefactor during this period of<br />

equality of his erstwhile material superiority.<br />

4. The envious man is perfectly prepared to injure himself if by so<br />

doing he can injure or hurt the object of his envy. Many criminal acts, in<br />

some cases perhaps even suicide, become more comprehensible if this<br />

possibility is recognized.<br />

Envy stews in its own juice.-The envious man will often suffer<br />

injury himself so as to bring it on his fellow man.<br />

5. Proverbs in many languages agree that the greatest damage done<br />

by the envious man is to himself. Envy is described as an utterly destructive,<br />

uncreative and even diseased state of mind for which there is no<br />

remedy.<br />

Envy has never made anyone rich.-Envy cuts its own throat.-Envy<br />

will eat nothing but its own heart.-Envy envies itself.-Envy brings<br />

suffering to the envious man.-Envy devours its own master.-Envy is<br />

its own scourge.-Envy flogs itself.-Envy makes life bitter.-The<br />

envious man injures no one so much as himself.<br />

6. Like primitive peoples, whose fear of their fellow tribesmen's<br />

black magic invariably ascribes to them the motive of envy, proverbs repeatedly<br />

indicate how easily the passively envious man can become an<br />

aggressive criminal. For the envious man it is not enough to wait until

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