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WATERING THE NEIGHBOUR'S GARDEN: THE GROWING - CICRED

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VULNERABLE DAUGHTERS IN A MODERNIZING SOCIETY…<br />

is they who seek loans and sell land” (Caldwell et al., 1982: 707).<br />

Rich Gowda families are ready to pay up to Rs.5-6 lakhs 7 as dowry,<br />

apart from gold, vehicles etc. The girl’s family meets the entire<br />

marriage expenses. The dowry depends upon the qualification and<br />

employment position of the boy and land owning status of the family<br />

(see Appendix 1). During our fieldwork we came across Vokkaliga<br />

families having only one child, mostly male, and deciding to accept<br />

family planning. According to them, if they had more than one child it<br />

would be extremely difficult to provide good education and meet the<br />

cost of upbringing. As narrated in our focus group discussions, since<br />

land was limited, it was difficult to maintain the standard of living.<br />

“It was better before. Rainfall was sufficient and the crop<br />

yield was good. We used to get sufficient water from the<br />

Krishnarajasagar dam and there was not much problem for<br />

our agriculture. We were getting good crops and, we were<br />

happy.”<br />

“At present, due to insufficient rainfall canal water from<br />

the dam for our agriculture is becoming difficult. The entire<br />

village including its surroundings is having the same<br />

kind of problem in agriculture”.<br />

“Because of the financial constraint, everybody has been<br />

limiting the family size. Fragmentation of land has taken<br />

place due to the partition of families, and everybody having<br />

only small holdings. So, parents don’t want to have<br />

more children and again don’t want to divide their family<br />

and land.”<br />

“In our colony, Kamali has two, sons. Her elder daughterin-law<br />

has not brought anything, but the second daughterin-law<br />

has brought a huge dowry. Therefore the younger<br />

one receives more respect than the elder one.”<br />

“The husband and the in-laws threaten the elder one for<br />

not bringing any dowry. We have seen this with our own<br />

eyes, so many times”.<br />

“I have seen them beating her also. Any time, she will be<br />

sent back home”.<br />

7 Rs 5 lakhs (500,000 rupees) amount approximately to 9.300 euros (2007 exchange<br />

rate).<br />

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