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WATERING THE NEIGHBOUR'S GARDEN: THE GROWING - CICRED

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TRANSNATIONAL MIGRATION, MARRIAGE AND TRAFFICKING…<br />

but that I must let her take my daughter in exchange. I said<br />

that I would never sell my daughter, so please leave us<br />

alone. Then on September 9th, 1998, she came again and<br />

took my daughter away [in secret]” (Relative of a trafficked<br />

victim).<br />

She explained that her daughter was watching television then.<br />

When she returned home, the woman had taken her away. The trafficker<br />

later told the mother that it was her fault of “not letting her<br />

daughter to go with her”, so that she was kidnapped “by someone”. By<br />

2002, the mother received a letter from her daughter and realized that<br />

it was precisely that woman who did the kidnapping.<br />

Indeed, trafficking is a profitable business. Information from a<br />

group discussion in Ha Long show that the price of a trafficked<br />

woman varies from 5 to 7 million Vietnamese dong (US$ 700 to<br />

US$ 900), but can be much higher if the trafficked is young and beautiful.<br />

Another study reported that to marry to a “beautiful” Vietnamese<br />

woman, the cost is only about 7,000 to 8,000 Chinese yuan (US$ 880-<br />

1,000). If the woman is considered not to be beautiful, the cost is<br />

about 3,000 to 4,000 yuan (Vu and Nguyen, 2002).<br />

4. Life and work in China<br />

4.1. Women trafficked for the purpose of marriage<br />

Women married to Chinese men were both wives and domestic<br />

workers for the family they lived with. Moreover, nearly one half cultivated<br />

the household land plot. For most of them, life was very hard.<br />

As admitted by a returnee:<br />

“You know that agricultural work is very hard. I am their<br />

daughter-in-law, so I should work” (Returnee). “No one<br />

asked me. I left by myself. It turned out that life there was<br />

so hard. I could not stay. I returned home after a few<br />

months”.<br />

Despite their hard work, only 12.1 percent of the returnees had<br />

some savings–which was about 10 percent of what they had made.<br />

Very few (3.8 percent) were able to send remittances home which had<br />

no significant influence on their family income. In Vu and Nguyen’s<br />

study, none of the study participants had been able to send remittances<br />

to their families of origin (Vu and Nguyen, 2002).<br />

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