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GURUS AND PRISONERS 395<br />

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No amount of flaws shown by <strong>the</strong> spiritual teacher will dissuade<br />

<strong>the</strong> truly sincere seeker from becoming involved and deferential.<br />

Not, at least, if he places enlightenment/salvation as a high<br />

enough goal in his own life, and believes that <strong>the</strong> holy figure in<br />

question can help him get to that state faster than any o<strong>the</strong>r route.<br />

Thus, as Butterfield (1994) noted in <strong>the</strong> context of his own initiation<br />

into Trungpa’s path, with <strong>the</strong> latter having given that Vajrayana<br />

transmission via a rambling, nearly nonsensical, stream-ofconsciousness<br />

delivery:<br />

He could have said very little to dissuade me, as long as I<br />

remained convinced that he knew what I wanted to learn.<br />

Ponder that point deeply, for it means that <strong>the</strong> utilization of<br />

“deceptive recruiting” as a means of defining what a potentially<br />

destructive group is, is far less relevant than one might imagine it<br />

to be. For, even without such deception, one may well truly believe<br />

(on <strong>the</strong> basis of “genius” recommendations and <strong>the</strong> like) that one or<br />

ano<strong>the</strong>r guru-figure is a “great Realizer,” and that he can lead you<br />

to <strong>the</strong> same exalted state if you just “surrender completely” to him.<br />

And in that case, you will put up with any amount of “Rude Boy”<br />

mistreatment in that relationship, and consider it to be for your<br />

own benefit, even if you have been warned about it beforehand.<br />

Even just in normal human relationships, if someone has<br />

something we want—sex, money, etc.—we will tolerate a great<br />

deal of grief and mistreatment in order to get it. And being told upfront<br />

that <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r person is “trouble,” or that we will be asked to<br />

compromise our principles in <strong>the</strong> process, won’t stop us from going<br />

willing into that, if we just want <strong>the</strong> “prize” badly enough.<br />

So, how badly do you want enlightenment?<br />

The guru claimed to offer access to profoundly ecstatic spiritual<br />

realization, and <strong>the</strong> only way to gain access to that experience<br />

was by playing his game. The better you played <strong>the</strong><br />

game, by showing your devotion and obedience, <strong>the</strong> greater<br />

your contact with <strong>the</strong> guru and <strong>the</strong> more frequent your opportunities<br />

for grace (Lowe, 1996).<br />

Interestingly, <strong>the</strong> Daists have reportedly (Lowe, 1996) attempted<br />

to get <strong>the</strong> “disappointingly” tame Garbage and <strong>the</strong> Goddess<br />

out of circulation. Likewise, Trungpa’s followers, when an ex-

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