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AFTER THE ORDEAL 469<br />

<strong>the</strong> “kings” of it. Indeed, in <strong>the</strong> same West where a “lack of social<br />

constraint” is regularly blamed for <strong>the</strong> excesses of its “crazy wisdom”<br />

practitioners:<br />

[Few] crazy-wisdom masters today are afforded <strong>the</strong> privilege<br />

of making use of <strong>the</strong>ir full bag of tricks. They are well aware<br />

that a single lawsuit brought against <strong>the</strong>m ... could result in<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir losing <strong>the</strong> opportunity to continue <strong>the</strong>ir teaching function<br />

(Caplan, 2002).<br />

Since those lawsuits arise predominantly from alleged sexual<br />

abuses (cf. Swami Rama), one cannot have it both ways. That is,<br />

one is welcome to state, with Ram Dass (in Caplan, 2002), that<br />

previously “impeccable” <strong>gurus</strong> fall from <strong>the</strong>ir lofty ideals because of<br />

<strong>the</strong> greater freedoms and promiscuity (in alcohol, drugs and sex) in<br />

<strong>the</strong> West. One would be hopelessly wrong—cf. Dass’ own “seventeen-year-old<br />

jock,” Neem Karoli Baba—but one is free to close<br />

one’s eyes and propose that. Having stated it, however, one cannot<br />

<strong>the</strong>n turn around and assert that “crazy wisdom” is practiced with<br />

more freedom in <strong>the</strong> East, where “<strong>the</strong> guru-principle is understood,”<br />

and lawsuits need not be so feared should “Da Shit hit Da<br />

Fan”!<br />

Note fur<strong>the</strong>r that while even educational institutions have acknowledged<br />

<strong>the</strong> existence of relevant psychological dynamics between<br />

teachers and students, from which <strong>the</strong> students need to be<br />

protected, things are much worse for guru-figures and disciples.<br />

For, a student receiving unwanted attention from a professor or<br />

graduate supervisor might, at least in <strong>the</strong>ory (i.e., notwithstanding<br />

“old boys’ networks” and <strong>the</strong> like), transfer to ano<strong>the</strong>r class/supervisor,<br />

or go “over <strong>the</strong> prof’s head” to <strong>the</strong> dean, etc. There are no<br />

such courts of appeal, however, for wronged disciples. Ra<strong>the</strong>r,<br />

<strong>the</strong>re is merely <strong>the</strong> fear that in saying “No” to anything that <strong>the</strong><br />

guru-figure asks of you, you are being disobedient and egoic, and<br />

thus retarding your own spiritual growth. Fur<strong>the</strong>r, to break with<br />

<strong>the</strong> guru at any stage of that may, one believes, cast one into “Vajra<br />

hell,” or result in one “wandering <strong>the</strong> Earth for incarnations”<br />

before being given ano<strong>the</strong>r chance at enlightenment, should you<br />

“waste” this one.<br />

More obviously, no mere professor, graduate supervisor or<br />

employer could believably suggest that sleeping with him (or her)<br />

is part of a “divinely ordained plan.” Guru-figures, on <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

hand, can and do routinely advance exactly that idea. Thus, what-

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