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438 STRIPPING THE GURUS<br />

While I do not know what people mean when <strong>the</strong>y claim that<br />

everyone is entitled to his own opinion, I do know that no one<br />

has a right to be wrong in his facts (Askenasy, 1978).<br />

It was, fur<strong>the</strong>r, not merely Trungpa himself who was transplanted<br />

into <strong>the</strong> West. More importantly, <strong>the</strong> closed communities,<br />

feudal/hierarchical power structures and “infallibility of <strong>the</strong> guru”<br />

teachings of his ancient Tibetan tradition formed <strong>the</strong> basis for his<br />

own little spiritual “kingdom” in Boulder (Marin, 1995). And it is<br />

those structures, not any excessive partying per se, which create<br />

<strong>the</strong> “superintendent/guard/prisoner” environment which ruins people’s<br />

lives just as much in non-“crazy wisdom” surroundings as it<br />

does in “uncontrolled” contexts such as Chögyam’s.<br />

It is true that Trungpa (1981), for one, gave at least lip service<br />

to encouraging “an attitude of constant questioning, ra<strong>the</strong>r than<br />

ignoring our intelligence.” Butterfield’s descriptions of <strong>the</strong> interview<br />

process undergone during his own admission as a student,<br />

however, show that one could not become a member of Trungpa’s<br />

community without buying into <strong>the</strong> full set of ridiculous superstitions.<br />

Consider also Merwin’s fate, when he attempted to question<br />

ra<strong>the</strong>r than going blindly along with <strong>the</strong> dictates of <strong>the</strong> guru and<br />

his group-thinking community. It is issues like <strong>the</strong>se, not halfbaked,<br />

pulled-out-of-thin-air <strong>the</strong>ory, which matter in evaluating<br />

<strong>the</strong> potential for harm present in any “true sangha.”<br />

Note fur<strong>the</strong>r that, by Feuerstein’s own testimony, Drukpa<br />

Kunley’s sexual exploits “did fly in <strong>the</strong> face of custom and propriety.”<br />

That is, his “crazy wisdom” behaviors were not constrained by<br />

<strong>the</strong> agrarian society in which he lived.<br />

Obviously, <strong>the</strong>n, after all that, nei<strong>the</strong>r social nor cultural nor<br />

psychological-development variations can account for <strong>the</strong> “difference”<br />

between guru-disciple relationships as practiced in <strong>the</strong> East<br />

versus <strong>the</strong> West. Ra<strong>the</strong>r, when it comes to <strong>the</strong> demand for blind<br />

obedience, and to <strong>the</strong> reported abuse of sex and power, <strong>the</strong> problems<br />

and alleged abuses exist, and have always existed, just as<br />

surely “on <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r side of <strong>the</strong> pond” as <strong>the</strong>y do in North America.<br />

(Cf. Ramakrishna, and <strong>the</strong> history of Zen and of lama-sexing,<br />

child-torturing Tibetan Buddhism.)<br />

Persons looking to account for a non-existent “difference” between<br />

East and West in all this fur<strong>the</strong>r generally ignore <strong>the</strong> natural<br />

effect of <strong>the</strong> passage of time on <strong>the</strong> involved individuals. Someone<br />

like Trungpa was going to become increasingly self-destructive<br />

as <strong>the</strong> years went by regardless, for his childhood pains and o<strong>the</strong>r-

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