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you will find that your worry disappears

altogether, and is replaced by a kind of

exhilaration.

This is part of a more general technique for the

avoidance of fear. Worry is a form of fear, and all

forms of fear produce fatigue. A man who has

learnt not to feel fear will find the fatigue of daily

life enormously diminished. Now fear, in its most

harmful form, arises where there is some danger

which we are unwilling to face. At odd moments

horrible thoughts dart into our minds; what they are

depends upon the person, but almost everybody

had some kind of lurking fear. With one man it is

cancer, with another financial ruin, with a third the

discovery of some disgraceful secret, a fourth is

tormented by jealous suspicions, a fifth is haunted

at night by the thought that perhaps the tales of hellfire

told him when he was young may be true.

Probably all these people employ the wrong

technique for dealing with their fear; whenever it

comes into their mind, they try to think of

something else; they distract their thoughts with

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