Understanding and Challenging Stigma toward ... - Pact Cambodia

Naming
Stigma
toward
MSM
Example Responses:
No one sits down and talks with him to find out how he is feeling.
Force him to get married.
Some families kick him out of the house and break communication with him.
What do the neighbors say or do?
Make fun of the boy and insult him.
Blame the parents for not raising the boy properly.
They watch their own sons and keep them from playing with the MSM.
What is the effect on the MSM from the stigma and pressure?
At first the MSM feels isolated and alone. No one is listening to him.
He feels ashamed and starts to doubt himself: “Why have I become MSM?”
Becomes depressed. Breakdown in communication with parents and siblings.
Becomes rebellious and uses alcohol and drugs as a coping mechanism.
Eventually he decides to leave home and live with other MSM who are more
accepting.
All of the pressure from parents results in no change in behavior.
What is blocking families from accepting and supporting their son?
Lack of understanding about and acceptance of MSM lifestyle.
Judging attitudes and fear of stigma from neighbors.
How can families be more accepting and supportive to their son?
Create a supportive environment where they can talk about issues.
Encourage MSM to talk openly about their feelings and listen.
Treat the MSM in the same way as they would treat other family members.
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