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B2<br />

What Do We Know about<br />

Men who Have Sex with Men?<br />

15. Safe sex for MSM is different from safe sex between a man <strong>and</strong> a woman.<br />

16. MSM are not at risk of getting HIV so they do not have to practice safe sex.<br />

17. There is no stigma against MSM, MSM stigmatize themselves.<br />

18. MSM have less male hormones than heterosexual men.<br />

19. Homosexuality is caused by karma.<br />

Summary: Bring the session to a close by summarizing the main points<br />

which participants have made during the exercise. In giving your summary you<br />

may use some of the following points, if they have not already been mentioned by<br />

participants.<br />

People know little about MSM, so out of ignorance they judge them unfairly or<br />

isolate/reject them out of fear.<br />

When we know little about others, we end up accepting stereotypes about<br />

them, e.g., that “MSM are sick, sex crazy, etc.” We believe these things are true,<br />

but they are false.<br />

We endorse the practices of the majority (heterosexual sex) <strong>and</strong> criticize the<br />

practices of the minority (MSM/homosexuality). We use the pressure of the<br />

majority to criticize <strong>and</strong> marginalize the minority (MSM) <strong>and</strong> ignore their<br />

rights.<br />

If we know more about MSM – their lives <strong>and</strong> loves, gender identity, gender<br />

expression, <strong>and</strong> their sexual orientation – we will begin to overcome some of<br />

our doubts, prejudice <strong>and</strong> confusion about MSM <strong>and</strong> be less fearful or<br />

condemning <strong>toward</strong>s them.<br />

MSM help to teach us that human beings are different in a wide variety of<br />

ways. Instead of making fun of people who dress or behave or have sex in<br />

different ways, we should accept them.<br />

MSM are different, but they are not harming anyone, so we should leave them<br />

alone <strong>and</strong> let them get on with their lives without being condemned <strong>and</strong><br />

taunted.<br />

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