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2012 EDUCATIONAL BOOK - American Society of Clinical Oncology

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BUOYANCY TO PREVENT STRESS AND BURNOUT<br />

to get almost all <strong>of</strong> your needs met by trying to help others<br />

and neglecting yourself? Do you find yourself being cynical<br />

or intolerant <strong>of</strong> “fools,” catastrophizing, or being overly<br />

negative or pessimistic? Self-appraisal in these realms is<br />

healthy. We learn about the concept <strong>of</strong> “equipoise” in clinical<br />

trials and scientific experimentation, but it is equally critical<br />

to introduce equipoise in our own ways <strong>of</strong> looking at things.<br />

In other words, learn to resist becoming too enamored <strong>of</strong><br />

your own ideas and perspectives. Take a close look at your<br />

position about an issue and think, “Maybe so.” Next, try to<br />

explore alternate perspectives, ranging from one extreme to<br />

the opposite and then back toward your own estimate <strong>of</strong><br />

reality. You may end up in the same place—your position—<br />

but flexing your mind around an issue can help you find<br />

greater balance and enhance your buoyancy.<br />

Gratitude<br />

The idea that it is healthy to “count one’s blessings” is<br />

widely understood. However, having the discipline and skill<br />

to maintain this particular intention is not simple. One way<br />

to accomplish this is to think deeply about the concept <strong>of</strong><br />

buoyancy and notice that there are indeed things that are<br />

working in your life. As a further step, having noticed your<br />

buoyancy and its roots, take a moment to actually feel<br />

gratitude for achieving balance. Finally, act on gratitude by<br />

speaking or writing words <strong>of</strong> appreciation. In my practice,<br />

good habits are <strong>of</strong>ten easiest to internalize when I implement<br />

them at a patient’s bedside for the purpose <strong>of</strong> improving<br />

patient care. In that setting, start by noticing and<br />

appreciating elements <strong>of</strong> your patient’s behavior. Patients<br />

do amazing things all the time; it is not difficult to find<br />

behaviors to comment positively about. Learning to say<br />

goodbye to patients toward the end <strong>of</strong> life 23 and writing<br />

letters <strong>of</strong> condolence to family members 24 are examples <strong>of</strong><br />

showing gratitude in clinical settings. The next step would<br />

be extending this practice to your colleagues, staff, family,<br />

and friends by saying “thank you” more frequently. Many<br />

providers are surprisingly stingy when it comes to saying<br />

“thank you” in pr<strong>of</strong>essional and personal realms, perhaps as<br />

a result <strong>of</strong> high expectations from staff and colleagues.<br />

Expressing gratitude more <strong>of</strong>ten does not require lowering<br />

expectations, and it can help bolster buoyancy.<br />

Courage (Managing Fear)<br />

<strong>Oncology</strong> providers, in general, have a great deal <strong>of</strong><br />

courage. It takes courage to compete in school and achieve<br />

enough success to get trained in medicine and cancer care. It<br />

takes courage to deal with the sacrifices inherent in medicine<br />

and the great responsibility (and privilege) <strong>of</strong> caring for<br />

persons who are ill. But courage is not generic. One can be a<br />

war hero and be frightened <strong>of</strong> snakes or bugs. If you think <strong>of</strong><br />

courage as “fear management,” then it makes sense that one<br />

can be successful in some realms and still need work in<br />

others. To guard against burnout and build buoyancy, providers<br />

need to learn how to recognize their fears, give those<br />

fears a name, and reflect deeply on how to confront fear.<br />

Common fears include fear <strong>of</strong> making mistakes, being<br />

blamed or sued, or being judged or taken for granted by<br />

colleagues, friends, or family. There may be fear <strong>of</strong> losing<br />

income as a result <strong>of</strong> competition, <strong>of</strong> not being appropriately<br />

recognized or promoted, or any number <strong>of</strong> other concerns<br />

that are understandable in our modern environment. Other<br />

issues revolve around countertransference and one’s feelings<br />

about personal mortality and death. Becoming aware <strong>of</strong> our<br />

fears and developing habits and action plans for managing<br />

them is critical. Introspection is critical. For many providers,<br />

connecting with others is preferable to tackling these<br />

tasks alone.<br />

Appreciation <strong>of</strong> Impermanence<br />

To appreciate impermanence is to understand that all<br />

things change and that loss is part <strong>of</strong> the package in life.<br />

Being flexible and open to change is essential for personal<br />

growth and equanimity. I may not relish change in all<br />

instances (like my aging body or my changing bank account),<br />

but I can see this truth. The idea that change is the nature<br />

<strong>of</strong> all things is yet another topic that is easy to recite but<br />

difficult to integrate on a practical level. Change is frequently<br />

associated with emotions, both positive and negative.<br />

People cry at weddings and funerals and graduations,<br />

for instance—all events associated with transitions. How<br />

<strong>of</strong>ten to you notice your own emotions? Do you notice when<br />

you are getting angry? Are you aware <strong>of</strong> your own grieving?<br />

In oncology, dealing with loss and grief is particularly<br />

important. 16,25 In his classic article “Dealing with Our<br />

Losses,” Balfour Mount wrote, “To live is to experience<br />

loss.” 26 A mentor once told me, “You have got to learn how to<br />

lose.” We experience loss not only with our patients facing<br />

serious illness but also with changes, setbacks, and failures<br />

<strong>of</strong> every variety: experiments that fail, grants not funded,<br />

papers not accepted, organizational shifts that are not in our<br />

favor, and the list goes on. As oncology providers, we should<br />

strive to maintain our resilience while at the same time<br />

finding a way to notice and manage our emotions. Although<br />

people are variably resilient, there are related skills that can<br />

be learned and practiced. Mindfulness training, for example,<br />

has shown benefits for helping physicians become more<br />

awake to their present reality as well as positioned to accept<br />

the inevitability <strong>of</strong> change. 8<br />

Compassionate Mind Frame<br />

It is a bit embarrassing to have been concerned with the<br />

human problem all one’s life and find at the end that one<br />

has no more to <strong>of</strong>fer by way <strong>of</strong> advice than ‘try to be a little<br />

kinder.’ –Aldous Huxley<br />

I think about compassion as something that starts with<br />

empathy but requires buoyancy (like a coenzyme in a chemical<br />

reaction) to come to fruition in an objective way. Without<br />

buoyancy, empathy would pull one toward the same place<br />

as the subject <strong>of</strong> one’s empathy. The good news, then, is that<br />

all the things you do to stay buoyant position you for success<br />

in creating and maintaining a compassionate mind frame.<br />

The aspect <strong>of</strong> compassion that takes particular practice and<br />

attention is empathy. Once again, a good place to start is<br />

in the clinical realm—learning to act empathetically toward<br />

your patients and, better yet, to feel empathy, too. There<br />

are good reviews on this topic, 27,28 and communication<br />

workshops and time spent with master clinicians can help<br />

promulgate this skill. The next step toward maximizing<br />

the buoyancy derived from a compassionate mind frame is to<br />

extend these skills outside the clinical setting to staff,<br />

colleagues, students, family, friends, and strangers, and<br />

then stretch this powerful mind frame all the way to oneself.<br />

Being compassionate toward oneself is a beautiful way to<br />

stay resilient and guard against the forces <strong>of</strong> burnout. A<br />

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