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and ‘cultural narratives’ (Laum
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of, “then in our times”, I thou
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commitment is practised in and thro
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empirical methodology to a communic
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Third Generation Second Generation
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hadrasamaj’s constuction of Rabin
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simplistically read as a story of g
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Bengal. The distinctiveness of Beng
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2002: 124). An in-depth narrative q
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Since there is no one ‘correct’
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assured my interviewees a certain r
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eactions, for this may have been a
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Method of Analysis: The method of a
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and personal life that are understo
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Deconstructive discourse analysis i
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‘interactionist turn’, a post-s
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valorization of ‘brotherhood’.
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men continually seek for communal a
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Ronjon links adda to nostalgic imag
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eproducing the cultural imperatives
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extended and elevated bench-like co
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comfortable, secure and familiar ha
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extent, socially structured by one
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practices but are, in fact, shaped
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as Sundordi (adjective sundor means
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otherhood in male homosocial intima
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This narrative illustrates trans-na
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suggests the cross-cultural relianc
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Similar narratives across all gener
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perform family-like rituals and tra
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It is significant to note that stor
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“Precisely because I detest the s
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“Other things may change such as
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latant and visible (Seidler, 1989).
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homosocial bonding and loyalty is,
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‘innocuous’ ragging and informa
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male power; modern homosexual intim
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Through various cultural practices,
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knowledge and practice is an ongoin
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The topics discussed may have also
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on to an associated binary politics
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conditioned by sedimented structure
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friend with whom I can share these
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Situating ‘Woman’ and ‘Homo
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homogenous male self and space is u
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waste of time’ and moreover I don
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materialistic, public ‘work’ an
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afford this subversion of hetero-no
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The Generational Re-production of F
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and reproduce institutionalized het
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through a woman’s prioritization
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ief each other about how we are goi
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Dalia is highly disdainful of putti
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only practice a reflexive narrative
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possibility of such subversive homo
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not think of myself as just a house
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of the para) and provide cultural e
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women, the people of the para have
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successfully become so dominating a
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smell of the fragrance Natasha wear
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exaggerating gendered commonalities
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CHAPTER-6 NARRATIVES OF COUPLING: N
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often invoked to strategically circ
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exchanges of glances was a feeling
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eclipses the conditions of its own
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Her constant self-doubt and guilt t
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and sexual nature that was otherwis
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Pushpa’s imaginative space was in
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‘present/now’ and ‘past/then
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‘open’ and ‘flexible’ about
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disassociates the idea of respectab
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2000) but also generally an individ
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in this narrative, her earlier narr
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Therefore, what she thinks they thi
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constantly evoked in Priya’s repe
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argues, there is often a possible s
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free play of sentiment as by delibe
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1998, 2001). These empirical instan
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self and society through a critique
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In the way familial arrangement cre
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phase of de-mystification can, in f
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and subjects’ positioning within
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• these categories of intimacy an
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appreciate and then read in relatio
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Today, some women bear these signs,
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1999; Gross, 2005; Smart, 2007; Hea
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imaginings into neat dichotomous cl
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of a particular community and bodil
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Photo-6: Illustrates the homosocial
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(Mohanty, 1991). A direct and also
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new middle-class is concerned today
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and beliefs that distinguishes them
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“traditional”)...domestic (read
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“Udayan often complains about my
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objects to them as “too ‘consum
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‘sangeet’ (musical musings invo
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internalization as an ‘obvious du
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prescribed institutional imperative
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omantic coupling cue. This phrase t
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woman then for men) through the pro
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then mediated their marriage of ‘
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Through narrating over and over sto
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‘practices of intimacy’, in whi
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For instance to define the self as
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of sexual sobriety still reigns str
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‘Intimate’ English Language: Tr
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This section on the language of int
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CHAPTER-8 CONCLUSION Through interv
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to confirm, subvert and reproduce t
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illustrations showed that it is not
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Research Contribution: Theoretical
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coloniality academically necessitat
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In this context, by appreciating th
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) deconstruction of both the ‘sel
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dialoguing with existing scholarshi
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) Self-Other Reaffirmation and Cult
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various power dynamics involved in
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Chakraborty (ed.) Jounota o Shonksh
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Chakraborty, D., 2000. Provincializ
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Finch, J. (2007) Displaying familie
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Grossberg, L. (1993) “The Formati
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Jackson, S. (1996) “Heterosexuali
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Lawler, S. (1999) ‘Getting out an
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Morgan, D. (1996) Family Connection
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Robinson, V. (1993) “Heterosexual
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Somers, M.R. (1994) The Narrative C
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APPENDIX Table-1: Brief Biography o
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Table-2: Brief Biography of Female