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Salesmanship as a Virtue: Live withTony Robbins110/929“Are you excited?” cries a young womannamed Stacy as I hand her my registrationforms. Her honeyed voicerises into one big exclamation point. Inod and smile as brightly as I can.Across the lobby of the Atlanta ConventionCenter, I hear people shrieking.“What’s that noise?” I ask.“They’re getting everyone pumped upto go inside!” Stacy enthuses. “That’spart of the whole UPW experience.”She hands me a purple spiral binderand a laminated nametag to weararound my neck. UNLEASH THEPOWER WITHIN, proclaims the binderin big block letters. Welcome to TonyRobbins’s entry-level seminar.I’ve paid $895 in exchange, accordingto the promotional materials, for
learning how to be more energetic, gainmomentum in my life, and conquer myfears. But the truth is that I’m not hereto unleash the power within me(though I’m always happy to pick up afew pointers); I’m here because thisseminar is the first stop on my journeyto understand the Extrovert Ideal.I’ve seen Tony Robbins’s infomercials—heclaims that there’s always oneairing at any given moment—and hestrikes me as one of the more extrovertedpeople on earth. But he’s not justany extrovert. He’s the king of self-help,with a client roster that has includedPresident Clinton, Tiger Woods, NelsonMandela, Margaret Thatcher, PrincessDiana, Mikhail Gorbachev, MotherTeresa, Serena Williams, DonnaKaran—and 50 million other people.And the self-help industry, into whichhundreds of thousands of Americans111/929
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—JONATHAN FIELDS, author of Uncer
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To my childhood family
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presupposes that energy needed in o
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17/9292. THE MYTH OF CHARISMATICLEA
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19/92911. ON COBBLERS AND GENERALS:
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For similar reasons, I did not use
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INTRODUCTIONThe North and South ofT
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squeeze inside the church until its
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27/929Our lives are shaped as profo
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pairings—masculinity and feminini
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stock of their true natures. You ha
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example, are rated as smarter, bett
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35/929The Cat in the HatCharlie Bro
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off each school day by performingda
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with me. I wish I could find that l
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she was in the real world, she wasn
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Everyone waited for Laura to reply,
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At first her questions were tentati
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so nice and so tough at the same ti
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extroverts need to recharge when th
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introvert would rather spend her va
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conversation. They tend to dislike
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from the socializing that causes th
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57/9292. _______ I often prefer to
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somebody says, ‘I’m bored. Why
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president of Rite-Solutions, and Ji
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have in common was something theydi
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charisma but for extreme humilityco
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he wanted to avoid simplistic answe
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introverted people, as well as one
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esults. And personal opinions are o
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T-shirts as possible in ten minutes
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which motivated them to work harder
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other hand, “may wish to adopt a
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quietly. “Get off my bus,” Blak
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to ‘reenter that forbidden zone b
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their encounter in her newspapercol
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do it, he said. “Who am I, that I
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If Parks spoke through her actions,
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jobs, dates, and even kidney donors
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‘it’s about people’ mantra we
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Might they have reached the rightre
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clumps. Children frolic in man-made
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man in bright red polo shirt and sn
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and began to feel guilty about all
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Presbyterian minister and worked wi
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means listening as well as talking,
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ock concert venue, save for the uno
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nothing, and he’s done good works
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Yet McHugh finds practices like the
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virtue. Righteous behavior is not s
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French. They call themselves theHom
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Homebrew crowd, computers are a too
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who hope to be innovative should wo
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221/929work best alone where they c
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interpersonally skilled but “not
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independently. We’d want to give
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province of a single mind actually
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& Young, GlaxoSmithKline, Alcoa, an
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According to a 2002 nationwide surv
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Williams also identifies leadership
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The New Groupthink did not arise at
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CFO of the social marketing firm Mr
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year, and asked them to devise a ne
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They found a striking differenceamo
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knowledge that are just out of your
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people’s lives and were “among
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No one would choose this sort ofpai
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And in contemporary workplaces, the
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correlation to outcome. Programmers
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about coworkers eavesdropping onthe
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environment that people would hatet
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Thursdays,” one day a week in whi
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If personal space is vital to creat
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261/9291. Don’t judge or criticiz
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Manufacturing (otherwise known as3M
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increases: groups of nine generate
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group performed much better than it
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participants would do better in pub
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conform. What was going on in themi
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decision-making. But when they went
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that they had arrived serendipitous
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population density is correlated wi
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hours—not the eight, ten, or four
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many casual, chance encounters as p
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PartTWOYOUR BIOLOGY, YOUR SELF?
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dries up and I can’t get any word
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seminar for his entire executive te
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my anxiety, but over the years I’
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For one of those studies, launched
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obot. At seven, they were asked top
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e a scientist. “Like … other fa
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temperature, and other properties o
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introverts—just the opposite—bu
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limbs (or staying calm) in response
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castles—he’ll often concentrate
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thin body and narrow face. Such con
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share only 50 percent of their gene
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day in a foreign city, but I love t
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Kagan ushers me inside his office i
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family goes to the beach every week
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high-reactive nervous system. One t
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Kagan tells me about the time hewat
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like asking whether a blizzard is c
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“The university is filled with in
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extremely low-reactive kids? Often
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According to Jay Belsky, a leadingp
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it’s becoming the leader of their
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Stephen Suomi, the scientist whocon
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focuses on problems and pathology.
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Most people would appreciate thefle
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Developmental Neuroimaging and Psyc
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We gaze reverently at the fMRI scan
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doing all these early observations
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strangers and feel “Geez! Who are
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We might call this the “rubber ba
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conditioned a rat to associate a ce
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knows it. When she arrives at a par
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makes people describe her as a “f
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intimate backyard talks with her mo
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part was when she got to close the
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To solve Esther’s problem, let’
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they’re constricted, so the brain
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personality psychologist David Fund
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also underperformed—taking an ave
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state lasts only until your friend
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alert, active, and energetic). Drow
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Esther managed to solve her problem
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I expected. There was a fashion des
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turn to offer feedback. Did Lateesh
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You seem so outgoing, they added.Yo
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subjects that don’t interest them
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the sixteenth president rising up b
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chosen her for just this reason; in
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At the same time, many told Eleanor
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In the meantime, Eleanor found hers
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When I hear that Aron will be theke
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egistration forms and name badges,t
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lue eyes that look as if they don
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there only when she withdrew from t
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attribute about fifteen motivations
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intuitive (just as Aron’s husband
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games or reading unfamiliar words.A
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was distracting. But Aron had a gre
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In 1921, FDR contracted polio. It w
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from her trips, she often told him
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was Eleanor who made sure he knewho
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apparently breaking the toy gives t
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and of another eight-year-old who c
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some evidence that sociopaths haved
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they camouflage signs of a nervous
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supercool pulse rate during liftoff
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intentionally,” Dijk speculates,
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In other words, you want to makesur
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[other type] is to be first, withou
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while the other 80 percent are “f
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y those farther up the food chain b
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The interesting thing is that these
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traumatic injuries. Extroverts enjo
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Roosevelts as surely as grazing her
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female tit birds—it might seem th
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suitcase through a midnight airport
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tirelessly promote the movie. He vi
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The atmosphere is startling simplyb
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eginning of conversations but at th
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putting myself to sleep. I wonder i
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guns strapped to their chests until
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7WHY DID WALL STREET CRASH ANDWARRE
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“Hi, Janice!” said the caller t
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same thing happened: the bailout st
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But sometimes we’re too sensitive
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after the deal was struck, a headli
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high reactivity and introversion. N
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eward-seeking cravings of the oldbr
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potential goodies; fMRI experiments
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medial orbitofrontal cortex, a key
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professor Richard Howard told me,po
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make group decisions, extroverts wo
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the choice of a small reward immedi
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failure of many banks during the Gr
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promotion. They lost their hold on
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stripped him of his power to review
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How did Janice Dorn’s client, Ala
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utton and find they’ve lost a poi
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and focused on a goal, their vigila
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of critical thinking widely used by
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imagining things, recalling events
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personality traits of effective cal
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we need to find a balance between a
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avoiding others that seem to causep
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extrovert, many of the flow experie
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you care about, you probably find t
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inappropriate risks, like the forme
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wrote in a letter to investors. Kla
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off handsomely if dramatic but unex
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confident group lost half their cli
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newspaper moguls, Hollywood celebri
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charmingly self-deprecating story
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will never be finished. That’s on
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8SOFT POWERAsian-Americans and the
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computer programming, and my job is
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Dream. Many first- and second-gener
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The library is to Cupertino what th
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distributed a few extra degrees tow
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would be like, ‘She’s so studio
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professors were so patient, just li
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change their ways, colleges can lea
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minority”—even when meant as a
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the “cheerful,” “enthusiastic
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desires to the group’s interests,
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centers in the American brains, whi
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It’s because of relationship hono
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may have thought. So if, deep down,
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nodded at the athletes, all of whom
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was supposed to encourage students
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on a weekday afternoon, cocky Asian
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personalities are more genuine,”
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cultural style for getting ahead: t
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Cupertino, Ni conducts daylong semi
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Ni asked for volunteers and brought
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Asians use only a narrow set of mus
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Aggressive power beats you up; soft
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man. As a child, he was afraid ofev
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abstain from meat, so he saw no dan
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they would surely have retaliated,
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esistance,” which he associated w
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The TIMSS exam (Trends in Internati
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the final grade, many students leav
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girl. When we first met, Tiffany wa
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have conviction if you’re quiet a
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9WHEN SHOULD YOU ACT MOREEXTROVERTE
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and e-mailing friends long notes he
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they’re relatively stable across
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psychologists acknowledge that we c
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fine-tune their own personalities t
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For years Little returned to lectur
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highly. Free Trait Theory explains
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effort required to stretch his natu
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when he decided that other kids wer
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you’ll see his self-taught bellic
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each teaching session. They also ra
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One of the most effective self-moni
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come naturally to him. Indeed, theh
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• Do you put on a show to impress
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high self-monitors can come across
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campus to celebrate. The subject of
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ody arrange themselves when you’r
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presentations. Although she felt de
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I, too, was once in this position.
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fireman, what did a fireman mean to
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classmates who’d grown up to bewr
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secretary under President Clinton,
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Sometimes people find restorativeni
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exchange for being ourselves the re
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But the person with whom you canbes
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Professor Little knows all too well
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Double pneumonia and an overschedul
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to see the world in a more negative
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great excitement and mutual admirat
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“do all the work of making conver
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school was tougher for her than for
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pro-social. But as we’ve seen, ne
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than the introverts, and this was i
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Greg feels hurt that she makes an e
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a career change. “I think we’d
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wanted to deliver her newscompassio
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disagree, her voice gets quiet and
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Do they also like each other a litt
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“Very nice, keep up the good work
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manager, while 71 percent accepted
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wrong. The cobra vows to stop immed
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have repair work to do with their p
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horrible, on some level she process
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study felt warmly toward their fell
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try to tap into my empathy,” he s
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the shoes of their conversational p
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does. It requires a kind of mental
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socially. It doesn’t show us how
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increased territory sales 500 perce
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commonality with the other person:Y
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to the point where I could walk int
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a way to break their stalemate. Ins
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11ON COBBLERS AND GENERALSHow to Cu
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separate occasions. Each time, the
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always reading,” says Dr. Miller
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Take the case of Joyce and her seve
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understand why her sweet, lovingdau
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Isabel wants to hang out alone in h
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Why would you want to do that?thoug
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child fit if she’d been an introv
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But even parents who still have wor
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same time he didn’t want her to g
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new people, but also to new places
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the safety of the dunes, and neithe
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Above all, do not shame her for her
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principals and guidance counselors,
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It’s a Tuesday morning in October
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But not all of them. When you seeth
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She opens her mouth to speak, butlo
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calm atmosphere where she could wor
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lunch in the cacophonous din of the
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school memory is of being made tost
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elieve that negative public speakin
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movement, stimulation, collaborativ
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her group had been smaller andsomeo
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what these kids are like oncethey
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help your introverted child thrive.
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words what it’s like to say “I
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development experts tell us, but be
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day she made the team after partici
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fashion and celebrity. Those kids a
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nerves were so mild that they simpl
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the story of David Weiss, a drummer
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stuff. And I know exactly how: I st
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it and enjoyed himself. His father
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one of the great insights of Wester
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for those who might fall into the f
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Run. Write a story. Make a deal wit
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you want the wisdom of the crowd,ga
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Lewis Carroll was an introvert, too
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But what he loved to do best wasrea
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suitcase (though I felt guilty abou
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A Note on the Words Introvert andEx
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categories quite separate from intr
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experience (“thinker, dreamer”)
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his preferred type, “intelligent
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At Crown Publishers, it has been my
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an interview. He gave me not only t
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to talk, let alone visit, during th
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Janice Dorn, Anders Ericsson, Jason
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Special thanks and love to Al andBo
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783/929Mood, and Cardiovascular Fun
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821/929excellent biography, Rosa Pa
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