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922/929CHAPTER 11: ON COBBLERS AND GENERALSSome of the advice in this chapter is basedon interviews I conducted with manycaring teachers, school administrators, andchild psychologists, and on the followingwonderful books:Elaine Aron, The Highly SensitiveChild: Helping Our Children ThriveWhen the World Overwhelms Them(New York: Broadway Books), 2002.Bernardo J. Carducci, Shyness: ABold New Approach (New York:Harper Paperbacks, 2000).Natalie Madorsky Elman and EileenKennedy-Moore, The Unwritten Rulesof Friendship (Boston: Little Brown,2003).Jerome Kagan and Nancy Snidman,The Long Shadow of Temperament
923/929(Cambridge, MA: HarvardUniversity Press, 2004).Barbara G. Markway and Gregory P.Markway, Nurturing the Shy Child(New York: St. Martin’s Press,2005).Kenneth H. Rubin, The FriendshipFactor (New York: Penguin, 2002).Ward K. Swallow, The Shy Child:Helping Children Triumph Over Shyness(New York: Time Warner,2000).1. Mark Twain once told a story: This comesfrom Donald Mackinnon, who believed (butwas not 100 percent certain) that MarkTwain told this story. See Donald W.MacKinnon, “The Nature and Nurture ofCreative Talent,” (Walter Van Dyke
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—JONATHAN FIELDS, author of Uncer
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To my childhood family
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presupposes that energy needed in o
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17/9292. THE MYTH OF CHARISMATICLEA
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19/92911. ON COBBLERS AND GENERALS:
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For similar reasons, I did not use
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INTRODUCTIONThe North and South ofT
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squeeze inside the church until its
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27/929Our lives are shaped as profo
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pairings—masculinity and feminini
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stock of their true natures. You ha
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example, are rated as smarter, bett
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35/929The Cat in the HatCharlie Bro
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off each school day by performingda
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with me. I wish I could find that l
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she was in the real world, she wasn
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Everyone waited for Laura to reply,
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At first her questions were tentati
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so nice and so tough at the same ti
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extroverts need to recharge when th
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introvert would rather spend her va
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conversation. They tend to dislike
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from the socializing that causes th
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57/9292. _______ I often prefer to
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59/92920. _______ In classroom situ
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actually a technical term in psycho
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illuminating insights that are chan
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65/929George Orwell, Theodor Geisel
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1THE RISE OF THE “MIGHTYLIKEABLE
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mesmerize an audience. This particu
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out on the road with few possession
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twentieth century, changing forever
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mass immigration blew the populatio
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featured case studies of historical
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on the street can’t know that we
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etter than a matinee idol to modelp
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showed a crestfallen young woman,ho
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possession and a power that didn’
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But nowhere was the need to appears
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magazine, “if you have a big, hus
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parents and teachers conspired to o
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the one who’s had an 80 or 85 ave
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The rest of the organization menwou
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personality traits are genetically
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The victor of that campaign? Thefig
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new demands of self-presentation.Wh
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senior manager at Eastman Kodak tol
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“I wasn’t that bad, was I?”
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learn to stage-manage our voices, g
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2THE MYTH OF CHARISMATICLEADERSHIPT
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learning how to be more energetic,
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PowerBars, bananas, and corn chips.
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and impossibly defined cheekbones.E
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off his expressive face, they cry o
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“Did you hesitate or go straight
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hands. When we’re finished, the q
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love knowledge for its own sake, no
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Ba-da-da-da, YES! Dum-dum-dum-DUM,
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His intellect is impressive, too.Th
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so on. He is motivated by love, he
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I can’t help but wonder why none
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salesmanship as a way of sharing on
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TVs silently broadcasting campus ne
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Capital of Extroversion.” But it
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to shake Wall Street, Main Street,
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teams). He spends the rest of the m
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students’ grade, and a much large
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students. When students fail to spe
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owdy evening? Students at HBS go ou
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judges HBS by how well it prepares
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151/929“creative,” she answered
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Yet even at Harvard Business School
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salvaged items. But his group didn
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But Mills also pointed to the commo
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powerful as a meeting goes on. It a
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somebody says, ‘I’m bored. Why
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president of Rite-Solutions, and Ji
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have in common was something theydi
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charisma but for extreme humilityco
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he wanted to avoid simplistic answe
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introverted people, as well as one
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esults. And personal opinions are o
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T-shirts as possible in ten minutes
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which motivated them to work harder
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other hand, “may wish to adopt a
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quietly. “Get off my bus,” Blak
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to ‘reenter that forbidden zone b
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their encounter in her newspapercol
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do it, he said. “Who am I, that I
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If Parks spoke through her actions,
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jobs, dates, and even kidney donors
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‘it’s about people’ mantra we
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Might they have reached the rightre
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clumps. Children frolic in man-made
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man in bright red polo shirt and sn
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and began to feel guilty about all
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Presbyterian minister and worked wi
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means listening as well as talking,
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ock concert venue, save for the uno
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nothing, and he’s done good works
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Yet McHugh finds practices like the
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virtue. Righteous behavior is not s
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French. They call themselves theHom
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Homebrew crowd, computers are a too
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who hope to be innovative should wo
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interpersonally skilled but “not
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independently. We’d want to give
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province of a single mind actually
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& Young, GlaxoSmithKline, Alcoa, an
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According to a 2002 nationwide surv
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Williams also identifies leadership
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The New Groupthink did not arise at
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CFO of the social marketing firm Mr
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year, and asked them to devise a ne
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They found a striking differenceamo
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knowledge that are just out of your
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people’s lives and were “among
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No one would choose this sort ofpai
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And in contemporary workplaces, the
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correlation to outcome. Programmers
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about coworkers eavesdropping onthe
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environment that people would hatet
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Thursdays,” one day a week in whi
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If personal space is vital to creat
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Manufacturing (otherwise known as3M
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increases: groups of nine generate
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group performed much better than it
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participants would do better in pub
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conform. What was going on in themi
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decision-making. But when they went
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that they had arrived serendipitous
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population density is correlated wi
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hours—not the eight, ten, or four
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many casual, chance encounters as p
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PartTWOYOUR BIOLOGY, YOUR SELF?
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dries up and I can’t get any word
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seminar for his entire executive te
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my anxiety, but over the years I’
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For one of those studies, launched
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obot. At seven, they were asked top
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e a scientist. “Like … other fa
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temperature, and other properties o
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introverts—just the opposite—bu
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limbs (or staying calm) in response
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castles—he’ll often concentrate
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thin body and narrow face. Such con
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share only 50 percent of their gene
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day in a foreign city, but I love t
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Kagan ushers me inside his office i
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family goes to the beach every week
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high-reactive nervous system. One t
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Kagan tells me about the time hewat
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like asking whether a blizzard is c
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“The university is filled with in
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extremely low-reactive kids? Often
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According to Jay Belsky, a leadingp
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it’s becoming the leader of their
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Stephen Suomi, the scientist whocon
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focuses on problems and pathology.
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Most people would appreciate thefle
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Developmental Neuroimaging and Psyc
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We gaze reverently at the fMRI scan
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doing all these early observations
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strangers and feel “Geez! Who are
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We might call this the “rubber ba
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conditioned a rat to associate a ce
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knows it. When she arrives at a par
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makes people describe her as a “f
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intimate backyard talks with her mo
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part was when she got to close the
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To solve Esther’s problem, let’
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they’re constricted, so the brain
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personality psychologist David Fund
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also underperformed—taking an ave
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state lasts only until your friend
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alert, active, and energetic). Drow
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Esther managed to solve her problem
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I expected. There was a fashion des
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turn to offer feedback. Did Lateesh
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You seem so outgoing, they added.Yo
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subjects that don’t interest them
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the sixteenth president rising up b
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chosen her for just this reason; in
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At the same time, many told Eleanor
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In the meantime, Eleanor found hers
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When I hear that Aron will be theke
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egistration forms and name badges,t
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lue eyes that look as if they don
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there only when she withdrew from t
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attribute about fifteen motivations
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intuitive (just as Aron’s husband
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games or reading unfamiliar words.A
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was distracting. But Aron had a gre
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In 1921, FDR contracted polio. It w
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from her trips, she often told him
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was Eleanor who made sure he knewho
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apparently breaking the toy gives t
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and of another eight-year-old who c
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some evidence that sociopaths haved
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they camouflage signs of a nervous
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supercool pulse rate during liftoff
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intentionally,” Dijk speculates,
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In other words, you want to makesur
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[other type] is to be first, withou
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while the other 80 percent are “f
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y those farther up the food chain b
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The interesting thing is that these
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traumatic injuries. Extroverts enjo
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Roosevelts as surely as grazing her
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female tit birds—it might seem th
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suitcase through a midnight airport
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tirelessly promote the movie. He vi
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The atmosphere is startling simplyb
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eginning of conversations but at th
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putting myself to sleep. I wonder i
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guns strapped to their chests until
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7WHY DID WALL STREET CRASH ANDWARRE
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“Hi, Janice!” said the caller t
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same thing happened: the bailout st
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But sometimes we’re too sensitive
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after the deal was struck, a headli
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high reactivity and introversion. N
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eward-seeking cravings of the oldbr
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potential goodies; fMRI experiments
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medial orbitofrontal cortex, a key
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professor Richard Howard told me,po
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make group decisions, extroverts wo
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the choice of a small reward immedi
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failure of many banks during the Gr
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promotion. They lost their hold on
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stripped him of his power to review
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How did Janice Dorn’s client, Ala
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utton and find they’ve lost a poi
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and focused on a goal, their vigila
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of critical thinking widely used by
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imagining things, recalling events
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personality traits of effective cal
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we need to find a balance between a
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And when it comes time to invest, o
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avoiding others that seem to causep
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495/9295. I have very few fears com
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extrovert, many of the flow experie
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you care about, you probably find t
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inappropriate risks, like the forme
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wrote in a letter to investors. Kla
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off handsomely if dramatic but unex
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confident group lost half their cli
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newspaper moguls, Hollywood celebri
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charmingly self-deprecating story
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will never be finished. That’s on
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8SOFT POWERAsian-Americans and the
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computer programming, and my job is
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Dream. Many first- and second-gener
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The library is to Cupertino what th
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distributed a few extra degrees tow
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would be like, ‘She’s so studio
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professors were so patient, just li
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change their ways, colleges can lea
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minority”—even when meant as a
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the “cheerful,” “enthusiastic
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535/929—KAMO NO CHOMEI, 12th Cent
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desires to the group’s interests,
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centers in the American brains, whi
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It’s because of relationship hono
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may have thought. So if, deep down,
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nodded at the athletes, all of whom
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was supposed to encourage students
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on a weekday afternoon, cocky Asian
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personalities are more genuine,”
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cultural style for getting ahead: t
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Cupertino, Ni conducts daylong semi
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Ni asked for volunteers and brought
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Asians use only a narrow set of mus
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Aggressive power beats you up; soft
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man. As a child, he was afraid ofev
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abstain from meat, so he saw no dan
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they would surely have retaliated,
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esistance,” which he associated w
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The TIMSS exam (Trends in Internati
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the final grade, many students leav
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girl. When we first met, Tiffany wa
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have conviction if you’re quiet a
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9WHEN SHOULD YOU ACT MOREEXTROVERTE
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and e-mailing friends long notes he
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they’re relatively stable across
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psychologists acknowledge that we c
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fine-tune their own personalities t
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For years Little returned to lectur
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highly. Free Trait Theory explains
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effort required to stretch his natu
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when he decided that other kids wer
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you’ll see his self-taught bellic
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each teaching session. They also ra
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One of the most effective self-moni
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come naturally to him. Indeed, theh
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• Do you put on a show to impress
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high self-monitors can come across
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campus to celebrate. The subject of
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ody arrange themselves when you’r
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presentations. Although she felt de
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I, too, was once in this position.
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fireman, what did a fireman mean to
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classmates who’d grown up to bewr
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secretary under President Clinton,
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Sometimes people find restorativeni
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exchange for being ourselves the re
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But the person with whom you canbes
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Professor Little knows all too well
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Double pneumonia and an overschedul
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to see the world in a more negative
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great excitement and mutual admirat
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“do all the work of making conver
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school was tougher for her than for
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pro-social. But as we’ve seen, ne
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than the introverts, and this was i
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Greg feels hurt that she makes an e
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a career change. “I think we’d
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wanted to deliver her newscompassio
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disagree, her voice gets quiet and
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Do they also like each other a litt
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“Very nice, keep up the good work
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manager, while 71 percent accepted
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wrong. The cobra vows to stop immed
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have repair work to do with their p
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horrible, on some level she process
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study felt warmly toward their fell
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try to tap into my empathy,” he s
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the shoes of their conversational p
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does. It requires a kind of mental
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socially. It doesn’t show us how
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increased territory sales 500 perce
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commonality with the other person:Y
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to the point where I could walk int
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a way to break their stalemate. Ins
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11ON COBBLERS AND GENERALSHow to Cu
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separate occasions. Each time, the
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always reading,” says Dr. Miller
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Take the case of Joyce and her seve
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understand why her sweet, lovingdau
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Isabel wants to hang out alone in h
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Why would you want to do that?thoug
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child fit if she’d been an introv
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But even parents who still have wor
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same time he didn’t want her to g
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new people, but also to new places
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the safety of the dunes, and neithe
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Above all, do not shame her for her
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principals and guidance counselors,
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It’s a Tuesday morning in October
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But not all of them. When you seeth
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She opens her mouth to speak, butlo
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calm atmosphere where she could wor
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lunch in the cacophonous din of the
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school memory is of being made tost
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elieve that negative public speakin
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movement, stimulation, collaborativ
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her group had been smaller andsomeo
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what these kids are like oncethey
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help your introverted child thrive.
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words what it’s like to say “I
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development experts tell us, but be
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day she made the team after partici
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fashion and celebrity. Those kids a
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nerves were so mild that they simpl
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the story of David Weiss, a drummer
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stuff. And I know exactly how: I st
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it and enjoyed himself. His father
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one of the great insights of Wester
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for those who might fall into the f
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Run. Write a story. Make a deal wit
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you want the wisdom of the crowd,ga
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Lewis Carroll was an introvert, too
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But what he loved to do best wasrea
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suitcase (though I felt guilty abou
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A Note on the Words Introvert andEx
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categories quite separate from intr
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experience (“thinker, dreamer”)
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his preferred type, “intelligent
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At Crown Publishers, it has been my
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an interview. He gave me not only t
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to talk, let alone visit, during th
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Janice Dorn, Anders Ericsson, Jason
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Special thanks and love to Al andBo
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783/929Mood, and Cardiovascular Fun
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817/92918. college students were as
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821/929excellent biography, Rosa Pa
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