Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption

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By MELES PEFeR
~m SM Wnta. I . "13. mdh la lo bLms la mncb d Lb. nmtmrrrn
'on Ihs mb]raol odoptlon rl~hu," Parker wld. :he
t b m fld Ihlng a pram n&r abaul flmhndrr 'chimed the "glonll&' reU1oN LZrl rrr IrquenUY
&on, puta tr ban rmd br tr and bm her bod
an reed abwt e mncnxlnnor sten on N we not sborul6 I
c&ui~y u U lo dnmollu 8 plnL Sb. Woad 'h& 0Idu d !be &q. Thrr dramollc deoKtloN (37
8pp.r lo a bwUndrr lo b. Iho plrm 1.4 a hplcal olkn hrvr qulU dlllrrenl nsulu
'hwim brarrile mad m&w. BDI ILN Ir ma0 (h.n Pnrktr real a lo iclllho :my 01 I'raad-!?I rh IJ
UuL Sbe LM u ~ odopuw . mdkr rbo pmMbly gUI w. at Uw 131 d 21. duldd It aar Llmelo 13d hu
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:-'real" mmw. Wtth lhe help 01 :orre ilk611 r-mh
: P"4erlm(b.mo(lndlwb(olollc.l.m,dmr rmor bs IWUV cndrd uo on (be J~orrt:~ z! ',
MlbqlIllullmcllLd~d*dopla'sTlrmL : Rit 11 .a nd 3 bpgy crun:n. .n).'::a us, sn d
:b (ROAPI. II lm 8 d00cnab.r~~d~lh
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:UllglUmalo chlld she hod alvcn up ahra be was bra ,
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~embm do oa waul cny odcvtim Ln mMgrd in
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Nor mdddr. 8 rmWr lb. hrd lrW lo loqd
Ob)o,l~~)~bCNCh,f0lhr~~W~.Dd~US amand rl brr dmr md Ihrer brr i1mJI Into a
~b~nll~atLb.pmpr(dpolllbl.mhnhamnlr4
~. LI.U~UC nltmum she nerrrrmnted la hmlad h.
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: Parirr a h cxphlsrd Vul Wm am pamnu rta
, 11 ru ~mo, ~utrrll k &m(lo. to ROAP mad .odopl chlldrm rnd nvml yean Irkr drcldo the dm1
:$a bb d Putnun coon^ Pvmb lor Chlld'a Rlsbb !rant Ihem onnnorr. &they have a emup vamh out
Ihlt hfmnhl her lo OItln Y W y nl@L St# oddmcd
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:Ihe b b b wnu ~ and dew1 tho cblg oo Wlr
.'a mull aord d 10 d mMI.daoUvm numb. at
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, ' uUo~k~wtloloochabblloro,ILNrlmr6
b a aem abwt~talm~OblotlcunUu1
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would Ibrutm lb rWm d adoplhr wdr U puvd
dwntrp. "11'1 a nn d~Uon hmt It h.1 hrmd;*
, Parker MM.
Plrh turned lb podlDm aaio ROAP .snt(ul.
Durn8 J QUtaUOn mnd
'~Ihy Mqua, M04 10 dn an apluvllm 01 ibs bllfr. !
amn ptf'Iod Pnrkrr brld ber I
:MP.r*rnnoculr~brrb8nL4rb.npWIwd .
a m lcrOU her ChCLl aUD01i pmtCNv~ly M ae
hknd lo
'rhyILNdommWoba~rrmd&'aIbna
prnnb wbo baIh agrerd ud
btr,
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:Uo6cooUlndaUtllsmOumLaUIlhboddmY '
:kesli.rci;,riukrrbm~~i~l~hl~"~~al~
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. IdeyrnuldllNOhbBouMbUUludM1~ mu bcr U Ua nwn
rbt dl&( rul~
:-oltd IM UM dd-I d ll~
lm CWWSIO~ M*I record* opm WO: because she tell :l;n.fr., at+, (be
:M ih ba) rn IUU~MI blll rmkd lo "klplpun" FQ:lllillly of lWln8 trr iau(2ltr:r love.
;odopkd W Irm tbs lml"llmbo inhg" Wy hrn
.rm M Lllol(nl Ihelt blobgkd partnu.
' 6 am her rn~thrr. I don't lrrl lhal I'm julou ,
.as.- lhvI I'm U~rr:tened."alrculd. .'I'S jut ilut I am htr
: '~bpu~1.dtbaUr~twp*W1~6wn mMt**r and Ih11'8 LL Ttere b no need to goearcw6
(b. abu d bltth prrenU and adopuvr p8rrnu" mtd
lor anyonc rlw."
'M~~cN. (b. mofkr d ho m g adwICdchUdrm.
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.'*my lpem W Uw Wt lo prlvlq ard the legal
To i'arkcr. Vltre la no other "m*rU lor hw
dgbu Ihe putall urn nunaked rbn Ihe ckUd war
douRhkr. The wmon rho bore ihe cbUd lorlrl~ed
adopccd"
rllbU.1 l mmtr rhenrhe gave the boby up for
Meymuld blll 481 don no1 wund w bod on Dam
adovUon. A mother la s prwn rho"canr lor
d aetvllly ROAP lm d y sgalnrl ceNh PON ol LC r8h a chUd and Uut'r me," Parker uld as rh.
tiowner, (b. bulc Idea of a ctnlral adoptlon natrtcr Ir WOW la becU.
"Marcrsary md not Larlble" lor lhe rbte ol Oblo'r
budarc #I Lhlt Umr. 50 tar, :UL ltghlrlon hovs not UICn wen moIhen b tbt MI- rho
uld rbm the money wffl come lmm lo runrucb
dhareed wilh lhs dclm~llan. One wmrn who hd
rrtlltrr.
Idovtrd SON Mld *w could undenwnd the boy:'
Parker btUcvn lhrl a mlral nglrtcr would a h C'JIIOultY I0 rant 10 llnd lhrlr naiwal molhm.
e~bh Uepl rerrsmb 8a.mcler lo bsrr sasr atcnr to one: who clrc lhmi birIh. Shesald she lrlr they t,d.
'ordl Psrktr's ryes grew wlh and shr rbspcd hrr
flKbt 10 lhd out McaW therc's hi kurnmg cwlovty
.nd~ clw la her body as rho leined Ionad to ask the
audlmm. "Cauld yw nn euy knowmu Vlti aearrJ
pupa rwM hrve aiicaurr Umr geluy mu yvur
chlld'r rmrdat
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of adoptive parents
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e mlr . . lo know tbelr OIWN.
*#I'm dch and Urcd 01 Mar(ng d dIhrtghtr,"u'l
man din an rdW M
muhen rant rlgbU tbs cbo ran1 r4lhu. .h.t
. tbcllph~d~lt+ararb.adn+Wh?"H*
kblmed th.1 U hlr m'o blologlcd V r?U
:~~~~~~.~nr(atb.tmy,tmeOLLI~*mtb.m
uruttd la l r e a on b vnv'l.
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IMW spoknrommn and iodcr d i. orslab.W ?
~~uqjlul; lo ptm (b. rlgbt d prlnn d dopUn
mrmk Zbs amnlr l&ed hk. a b0(u.rJ, d -.
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Bills exolained i
n o i r n Y & t w m w p r o O o r d
aUmInC recur31 lo b. clpa la adopted LDdmdp
ah*nd~vwrmumib.lmllblhrna~
(hw. It 1LPdlng Iku M'' I1 LLO pmpOud
Uut I& Irr bo mr~cUw. meaw rscadr d
cbWnnadopkdpr(orlo(b.&LUwLrpwed
wuldbropn.~wTb.Uwumnllo.LIal.~
legulptwtr lor n W h h .(U 0 nrW1 UmlL
It ral no( nWW Lo mr. h o new bll! Mm
dnm hero propoud 4 Ohb lytJ.ton
Pmvmrd Dhlo hill UI mclld allor M admlrd
It alloro a d m pmu lo bp& a cxw 4
tbrk 8dOPkd M U 8dWUoO
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bvth rrNI1coh rlW lba orrd lor mtw raut
I itWpmntl-acoplta(d.n
Mopkd pnon'a ad- ncordr a orlclnal
blM nNlleatm 4 dbrr pmm* aged& ard.
garmmmLl enUUa mly upon prlor cod coo
unt or mdrr and only U imd caw la bun lor
tbr WDII 01 con&#.-
And It mcUln lhal tbr lmputlon nui &q
, Mbu aranud lo .dm pnau ud adopUvo f
I pomnUapvI~loa~lhrlcmr~aloIbe
tlll'r dlrNn dPb.
Ohb Dffl MI muM &bUth a mrchuurm b :
.hlcb 0 blolaplcd ml d an admkd ~ n o o 1
can CONenI toke ri~uro(,'~drnt~yina Lnioma-
Uan." WormaUon lLII u Wcly 10 .WI tho
adopud penon in IlmUf~ing the bloloW1 par.
enL and 8 mechm(rm by rhlch thr adopled
pwn can obUh the IdenUhlRI Wm~~llolr .,
TaDtputmm~dF%blleWabnwddbw
10 nUbllrh r Gnur) RtgYw of Bldoglal
Pamu. In rldcb P would Uo n l ~ 01 r
bblogtcal pannu rb. authorha Ibe mluM ol
I~aWiac
no mlwr LnlomuuoO muld hrn lo MI to sdop~ mu~n edrnr~. walled
Wom8lloo and b. whmJUsd oil s lam Qmtmkd
A prapa br I8 LkpmomL yean or olda awl rho beUm be
cr rho u an odopwd pna~ rovlD b. able lo IUo a
p.cltion Iw un mlcw 04 IdtnW+in(l 1lomnUon
ma m oppropnrU pmOILo ccml.
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