Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption

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. .Dear. ana an as qp$,Plne.p- :, search 41. thclr ;blolog~~$.':~roundlng
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have toyed wlth..thc idea,;, 'lt.for~ed''.me' to!.look;i,'. 1 gavelmy son away so
of wrltlng to the Chtit; but . back end 1.wondered how .: that he 'could have n
after :rdadlng. your. letter i. I wbuld .feel if'my son happy, moro well-rounded
about ,l.your' .. ,adoptlvtf,. one day p~esented hlyself ,, llfe and I can't bear to
dsughtcr'b .dcslrb to escek.'I unnnnoun&d ,et*hf door',; thlnk of not being able to
out her blblogical~falher,'I.~~: 'to'query:kdlu,n'hlb back- , help..hlm: should he need,
know f inust'@rlle.! m': ' "?'/ .; ground; Thb:vcry !tho\lght my.hefp.
Nenrli "12' Jibar8 hgd. I., 1 sent . chllls * dnrlt.'lisusen~'.~ . These decisions have,
had a son?ogt-,of~w,~dlock. 1' . thmukhout: What. wounds", come after much thought,:
'The father of mycchlld ! he would tcooenl .:I,:'.'I ' da YOU
.was :'my , hth:i &,& : , -
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I\fter, more thought,! I;' j& Thanks to that movie:[
:through :ju'h$f !jeafl hlih 'was able lo put lnyu~ inn I am prepared. And I
school;'! 8ty+lhonrt, '. bbut! ::.his shoes. I wuld
thlnk thnt .'is the:' key, \
when-it cnme'down to the I:, (lame
the:ba~eli proparal10,n.
nky grltt~j:for:aom~ pa-:;, unrest, Lunderstood,, . :I*:-
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son unknown :fo., me, 'hel!,}
daughtcr's ' fathw's nnmc '
denled. paternity reeultlngic r: I then dCc1dedthnt if.be,;
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iq !subpoenas, belng lbsued .. bhOuld present himaeif'
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rmlo!dcpndil
and address. It ,would be
my ' 'auggcstlon thBt 'you.:
d ic court cd?ei. ..a: -1 .'me at. some polnt ' Id :the:; wrlte hlm a letter descrlb-
' :(hat ,erosd 1; tuture 1 ,jVould .sit down :Ink your daughter's needs
it impossible ior!,i,o; .:, wlth hlm and answer all.*, and ask his pcrmlsslon.
t~ ;i, complete,, \qe or;: hls suestlens honestly and t: As I.snid, if my son had
$ ' $lspasslonntely ..: year with tho resl of
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;lass end after the blrth dfl' I Still later, I have come,.; 1 may'.havo acted def%
t my son I moved to another near-clrclo on this subl~~t
slvely and, possibly, wlth
1 state as I wan .st111 hope-. and If there waa some way: .,hostility. . .
lepsly Jn 1ovc:wlth hlh fa-; 1 could get In touch with:. ' Even If hcr father
.ther. 1: : , ; i hi adopted .parents I :should lnltlnlly 4 rcfuso to
It took many yeat,s, !o buld advise them of my :. see her, he will be prc-
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gdt over the, ' dfecb' jol dcslra to tnlk to him when ;' pared should she perslst In
\ ttcsc events but how 1 am: he begins to questlon hls'.l-tho matter and I am aura
I~!pplly maryled ,with.' a,,. background .8011 thnt he: ; hlq second thoughts would
, ~vbndcrful,,..fitn)l .*f ,Lnst r; bduld; npver lhn e to be>..ba more, chnrltablo dhd
: wlntkr I saw I $v, mivloil~ khnppy l,.or ~~l-at-eawi.~upd.~tandln~. ' . , .-
o ndopled chll!Jre~.fjln, .:; !Jh, ,:!:,: darkness . sur- - - Diolopl~al Mom
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