' , . 6 ,, , .z:1 3,:, !,I ,!, * . - 8 - , . . , . .Dear. ana an as qp$,Plne.p- :, search 41. thclr ;blolog~~$.':~roundlng . I pls - Several !.Umes . an parents. ", , -.;- ,::,; .;& ,.and blrth. . . {!: , . . - have toyed wlth..thc idea,;, 'lt.for~ed''.me' to!.look;i,'. 1 gavelmy son away so of wrltlng to the Chtit; but . back end 1.wondered how .: that he 'could have n after :rdadlng. your. letter i. I wbuld .feel if'my son happy, moro well-rounded about ,l.your' .. ,adoptlvtf,. one day p~esented hlyself ,, llfe and I can't bear to dsughtcr'b .dcslrb to escek.'I unnnnoun&d ,et*hf door',; thlnk of not being able to out her blblogical~falher,'I.~~: 'to'query:kdlu,n'hlb back- , help..hlm: should he need, know f inust'@rlle.! m': ' "?'/ .; ground; Thb:vcry !tho\lght my.hefp. Nenrli "12' Jibar8 hgd. I., 1 sent . chllls * dnrlt.'lisusen~'.~ . These decisions have, had a son?ogt-,of~w,~dlock. 1' . thmukhout: What. wounds", come after much thought,: 'The father of mycchlld ! he would tcooenl .:I,:'.'I ' da YOU .was :'my , hth:i &,& : , - can nee. on the sub- , . I\fter, more thought,! I;' j& Thanks to that movie:[ :through :ju'h$f !jeafl hlih 'was able lo put lnyu~ inn I am prepared. And I school;'! 8ty+lhonrt, '. bbut! ::.his shoes. I wuld thlnk thnt .'is the:' key, \ when-it cnme'down to the I:, (lame the:ba~eli proparal10,n. nky grltt~j:for:aom~ pa-:;, unrest, Lunderstood,, . :I*:- '* Since you, know your! son unknown :fo., me, 'hel!,} daughtcr's ' fathw's nnmc ' denled. paternity reeultlngic r: I then dCc1dedthnt if.be,; ! iq !subpoenas, belng lbsued .. bhOuld present himaeif' , rmlo!dcpndil and address. It ,would be my ' 'auggcstlon thBt 'you.: d ic court cd?ei. ..a: -1 .'me at. some polnt ' Id :the:; wrlte hlm a letter descrlb- ' :(hat ,erosd 1; tuture 1 ,jVould .sit down :Ink your daughter's needs it impossible ior!,i,o; .:, wlth hlm and answer all.*, and ask his pcrmlsslon. t~ ;i, complete,, \qe or;: hls suestlens honestly and t: As I.snid, if my son had $ ' $lspasslonntely ..: year with tho resl of ..: .,,I, .coma ~ to ~~ me unannounced. ' v ;lass end after the blrth dfl' I Still later, I have come,.; 1 may'.havo acted def% t my son I moved to another near-clrclo on this subl~~t slvely and, possibly, wlth 1 state as I wan .st111 hope-. and If there waa some way: .,hostility. . . lepsly Jn 1ovc:wlth hlh fa-; 1 could get In touch with:. ' Even If hcr father .ther. 1: : , ; i hi adopted .parents I :should lnltlnlly 4 rcfuso to It took many yeat,s, !o buld advise them of my :. see her, he will be prc- .. i gdt over the, ' dfecb' jol dcslra to tnlk to him when ;' pared should she perslst In \ ttcsc events but how 1 am: he begins to questlon hls'.l-tho matter and I am aura I~!pplly maryled ,with.' a,,. background .8011 thnt he: ; hlq second thoughts would , ~vbndcrful,,..fitn)l .*f ,Lnst r; bduld; npver lhn e to be>..ba more, chnrltablo dhd : wlntkr I saw I $v, mivloil~ khnppy l,.or ~~l-at-eawi.~upd.~tandln~. ' . , .- o ndopled chll!Jre~.fjln, .:; !Jh, ,:!:,: darkness . sur- - - Diolopl~al Mom ., 7 .. .*: :.I' c~J!., ,v y ,,.r .,.?, ~ , r y - ~ + - w .:.::e.v ~ j iy r v~ y c ' , (3: 1h.l.' qr*,ys~tl , . ;I: .? . hl;':
., '. / . , , .'. . , ' . , ,. :;,. ,,.,\ , ., .L.'.'**, . - . . . .. t... ... .. ;:'.. , .. ... ,-., .. . . I . . . . . . .. ,,. , I . ,; . , . \ . i ' .... .. '1 '. , . , ' 9. mots llc elsewhere, nnl It b qually .~razen kreed! : ' ' . ,. . 'ROO~S and wingsS. .t ' ..,:' ' , ' .. d~rt~cult tor the birth parents lo accept the fncl that even Edilor, I%& U they arc rceltcd wllh ~ibune:' Thlk writer rC ' ' Edllor. Vie .~tibune: ,"Ihcri aro.only gmwn child, ncQer be how cenlly hnd the cdllying expfrlence or . two lmtlng bqufsts we can glve our (han his (deh,,me ,cords umoultr watchlnglonerVlce Pmldenl Agncwon children: m b, rpok the olhet Is 'j rathep will nlways.e,.oke melnorlcs telcvidon. .nls proud,, Hght.wlng, lotally wings.". .' "' ' . . .I. 01 those who hlsed hlm. 1Iowci.cr 11nrd It mrepmtanlmnn woren mlxedexpmslon I am Lhe moikr or twoybung glfla. me .'. I,, we mM alil the seorchlng adoptEe: d haughty pride plw that ol.8 fierce. Lounger me is wllh me. 'me oldcst-brn . give vlndlcllve attitude townrd tk ncwn mcdla our when I was hlnglc--waq purmndered adoptlve pnrmts will nmrer In lhis~couniry. Splro heartlly dctesb4he (under roerclon and duress) lor ndoptlon. ." th~;~~&n*s Q ~ b. ~ bd ~ encourage u ,mcdla. He would olcourse lcel dUlerenlly , lam grieved by the controversy over who,, . Md nld .fielr dcnrchgbr their s,olhcr~ 'If the mdln could kmnnlpulaled loscrve isa "real" pareni. the ~manllcsquabblci , mk, PI- eec lhk seer^ hslc rightists' lnlercsls I~lead of revealing the over *her "nalural," "Molcglcal,"'or . , nd lo,. b~ologlcal ~dcn~~~y-rook, . A ~ mKcd trulh awl such pople a?Tricky soma rwn more neutral term lprhaps . extensbn love ~d ro
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