Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption

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t an1 Or, El lrakg:!:h r'nat:.J. t;y (JOC~:Q:::!~ (n binl,:.l;t is ?rt::a :;IC :.:;-,i*;,!r if:;* ,>?
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Pannnylvani 3. 1 ha>;c tan.~ij:~t c:wl!i:?~l :::?on!, l'~.I~~ar~~!21~ ::I-.> nr!r'/:u5 :;7>!!1~?, , L.
Icd a conaunfty :,.lpport yrwp fur r$r:,yI iinal th, I it!l a ::,ii-:n: ,m:I i bi:.:!!;..i:.?~ :,
a mnkgr OF tho ,rrloptlcn Forunl oi: rli;) >!r!c.l~lli a Vld ':r:llc2r'.:cd !Jni::d .lit' ::I;I,;,~..!.I~'.;.
l'%laj* I npc~k as 7 >l~l~yis: !.,lion i :rj thnt a cl~ild~: :.,.!: j':!:i.;Iti:1 ,,i:l~:ti;
nJcura\ s:ckhur ]la; a bio)~gical b;l.;i; ;:ILL: hesins hl'fll..? J:I":~I. I :::..j?;.,.tJ :.
pl'otoct this r'clation.:hip From unncc-.:t%./ d i:t.upticr~.
Enl.1 ior :::;tintony cn illFant i::diilg tilll !r:atCt'tlill c 1 ! 71 1 2 :31.*j
cn obsur./;lttons of naturnl kthors. TC?ro Is rgasoti to su:pcct tila: ~::.~:::.G:?IIC 20
a ;uLsti tuto n;othcr dccj not procod~i r; roxii1y. Today's idcptod clii!rlt?11 irc 2':
psychlotr.fc ard coclol risk un,.olakcd :? tllu t ic:o of placz~nn:, !d,1:1:3..! 1:;)~hf it~*if:
p;ltiants 1 1 ~ distinct ~ 0 syrrptonq suck F; snn;cpl.~i~~cd d~l~bln ./lsf~~i. I : . 117
I\.JI'Q not ,dopt-d but cxporlcncod an 2zrl y matornat scpara:io;I .?r3 of>:11 c~.',.l::sly
tcpaircd in thotr c;lpocl:y for trust ir; lt toch.wr~ts, It is ir~:c~.cst ttlq ':I1 .I:: :::l.nal
tdu 1 t iK1opteos ofton Fcsl unoa:;y vR;cr? :rust and intimacy aro concwiri:d, .&I/. ji:::~
ten have lost 3 mo:horo
Tvn, n:cn:h: bofol-rt bfrth, o Fczs can rcsponJ 1:o s trcng r,1a:ct'ci3l {lr::n: ion;
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.>y way of Iiornorlu; ,a; ing thr'ough clc ,:lilc$nta. "dul t ~syt.;i i atric ~?i1.!11t: Lq! ;-
critiu vivid birth ~::pori3ncc,: tho': :a;? { vrl ill tli~i rccc~*ris ol' 12bflt' TI.! :! .!li::.;r,.
sicggcstiny pl'imdl zc~rarie; of 5iretii, ~tlicr nlrr! child ?ro .311'2sd./ F?i.tili;~. .:.- 2;:c.i
other 5y tho tin, of bir~il. IF slrc ii ~,:al:o and a8..nru *:hen hu is born si18 ,..!I l
look For him ar cnco, smiling. opcnly, zc;tittlc in sc!oir.g for tli~ fir.;t :in:o :k:
child she has cal*l-icd ;o long. l'hctz ts o huslind 3xcit2mnt: "7V1- -- a 3 >.c-y,, ,,:hl:
alrfght....Lot m hold him." It's a :~..r:rful comnt. .'A hor bi~lsg;~ 113s i~~'+?--i'cd I-
llor For thts. Sn,;idas :he hormonns :;J: jup?a>r:: prcynancy, nannali?r~ r;oth?ler, !i>w
3 Final ourpa OF !lormonos just bcFcr= 2irtli 2nd lasti~ig a day or *!in,
.? hnalthy nc\tbnrn Laky, t~i:h:;: 3nusrhc3iit1 will gar3 c~li~ly I in vIc!a-
ayad v.okder, in rapt at:zntion. Tha: :;,lie :.ri I I if hcls hul rcncv.od cor11::c': :,i:h
his r,ot!ior'i istarn bcdy right at birth. ;iar g:.ili skin yivos continuity Lo 111s ;>assag&>
From the womb.
The baby's coloriq, bac!y hi13 and terrporamnt c:cro cndc:~od thrcugh 5o:h
parents' gcras. rhoy can scc! tllomsol es in the chi Id they have borne. Sharcd
body nlovanants oniianco tho synpathy o+ ?~t'cnt and chi.ld. i;atural Fmi ly mr11kc1-s cm
roally oxpoct tho child to look like :o OF :lion, bascd cn the biolcg;. of birt:i.
Thus Itthey identify and readily bard. 33, do ;dtlI t adoptccs search cu: birthp31.nr1tz *
For, samono ~ I O 1ool:s like nc," ond :La adoptcd child asks, ltilso do I lcol: likc~?" t'
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This prana1;aI, bioloyy-bascd r=iationship botvican natur.11 n:otlior and child
dosorvos to corn to fruitton, For th- jekc OF both baby. .ltwl nothcr. Tha mosb.zr :dia
. Fondles har baby closuly For hours in :'73 d9y3 a?t?r birth ;onFcr; ti12 giFt IF ,\
psychologic~l ?.ollboing. Such bablcj ;_.nurally :hri..=, ;I:Y~'2~ccm;c:cur>
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Pidant. As childran, tlioy have an :a; zIc;so !/a;' with 1:Il~i: atotli?rs. ilic ;O~.:I. ';<
Is markod vhcn a ncvtborn is isolatud =-XI i:s n:~:l~,~r, b.?yrri.rl thr: Fir:;:. Fcr.1 c!.ly: ..]I:
IiFo, !hen yivon har baby again, shc 's ;icsltont and cau:icu:, fl:>tilcrs ,.,he .:3r3
completaly isolated From their prcma::r= babies in tho l~cspicol arc? mra 1il:~ly :n
abu30 thoni 1ahr on. .In dnptlvo ccx:;? 11so b=y!ns parznticg :ti:tic!~: :l:o ji>l~g;
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of :his uarly, ?tarn ?ralccm:; 2nd .ad:*; ;?: slbio; !~a-/u L.?ii r::cr:lr :ly asrly ;,.-+a
thcf~' mo:ltors tiit~cughout thoir iiospi ;:aye I,!ight rlnt ':hi:- 52 :, lrt: .,F tl?c 1.i ;I:
In doption?
Evory chili1 dcsorvos :IIII C!~J-,;- rvr 1 .i?cilrc 3t21.t in l if,?. ;urlly XI *jar iy
poriod OF protoctod intinracy with his ->!.her ;ti I1 tgnoFit an adojtcd clii Id ':-2. ? ~ r
biolcgical roasonf, no one can I'ully s~jstltut~ Val' thu na!:ur~l i:.o:l:u~. l!: i>ii;li,
Sincc tho best mcdicai proct ico todaj r~,:pcrL$ uarly ar:c! ~1c3o n;~:r?~.iirll *:3r4.>, jh:.i~l.!~i~ k
1 - Ella babies t:rholll ta later ednptcd h2.2 ;I,-& t:i?; ;xfvintg? tco? ::i",(ii(lot ibo tirn
spant rtl th liis tiatural mtlior Pull'i 1 1 ?!s First rc~l ott,:nsliip to : I ~ I J c.2.~~ ity
For loving others? Tlu ~roblcm vri th :?rsonal gri:F is in not h~liny it, in I:?;
c0nploting.a lost rolatlon3iilp.
In :s?i~lg a b~by so scon iron hi; ,I~>L!~ZI.,
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