Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption
Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption
Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption
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EDITINO<br />
Jane Bosvckl. Palrlcla Cnrblrre<br />
Jonrrnc Edgnr, Nlr~a Flnkclalcln<br />
Surannc Brnun Levfnc<br />
Sumn Mcticnry, Mar(ha Nelaon<br />
. Lclly Coltlrr l'o(lrcblir<br />
Gloria Stclrrern. Ruth Sullivan<br />
Ellcn Swccl. Mary Thom<br />
EDITORIAL RESMRCtI<br />
Slarce Crufle. Darcy GlI~,ltr<br />
Octsy lsrnel. Rllodn Kalc~lnsky<br />
Dclla Rowfond<br />
DESIaN<br />
Dlane Lattrpl~ron.~R~hbln Sclrlll<br />
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Desl(lrr consuilanl: Slcve Phllllpr<br />
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Lnlrrle H1l5man. Barbara Kraus ,<br />
COWAND PRODUCTION ' ..<br />
Mnrgarc"llcks(Advenlslng' ' '<br />
Nancy Maldn. Calherlne O'linlre . ,., ,i<br />
Arlene Packles. Joan Ptrllpolt ,<br />
PROMOTION<br />
Ell~ahclh M. Lang. Cathy L sypal .<br />
ADVERTISIN0 . .<br />
Jane Dcrnsteln. Courtncy Dlllcn ,<br />
Elltahlh Grilnn<br />
Janlcc Orosrmon, Wayne Hcflln<br />
Anne Ilollon. Rlla Malaleala<br />
Ka~ROrc.LauraSchro~ .<br />
Eslhcr Wilson ICInsalfled)<br />
Reglonal O(llces<br />
Mldmst Fellcc Arden<br />
tladassah Lev1<br />
West: Lanah Jones. Tars Slrnpaon<br />
PUBUSlIINa<br />
Patrlcla Carblnc. Susan Hollman<br />
Georgia Roulals, Arthur Torlow<br />
CIRCUIATION<br />
Jane Fox, Elizabeth Jacobren<br />
Audrcy Wilson '<br />
COMMUNICATIONS<br />
Faye Harvlrr<br />
Jan'csMi'chc~~~Janc'St'apiro<br />
CONTRIBUTINa<br />
lngclmrg Day, Sumn Dworkln<br />
Barbara Ehrenrelch<br />
, Marcla Ann Glllesplc<br />
Cmol Kleltnan. Hohln Morgan<br />
MaryPcacock.Phylll~Rosscr .<br />
Claudc Sewan-Schreiber<br />
Llndsy Van Geldcr. Alkc Walker<br />
Llsa Cronln Wohl. Yvonne<br />
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ADVISORY IlOAllO ON RFSFARCIt.<br />
SCIIOIARS<strong>III</strong>P AND EDUCATION<br />
C1II1.tlnc R, 8llmpson. Chrlr. Doug1.s~ Colle"c<br />
D~nhlbIlntk.~I~~ir~~l~.~rltx~~I,~~~,r~t,riorml<br />
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Ifru~,lrcll,~fal irillttl~t!ll8lrrlll1l~(u lllc-<br />
Ad~k~f~wft~c~,tI 01 \V.Cl~nr.s~r CoiIq)e<br />
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Ing-It seerns a slionie llint we give men sclf.cngcndcred helplessness 01 a Jarils<br />
1<br />
so mucti credit for jusl being overage. Joplln is lnflnitcly preferable lo llic<br />
Pl~llip A. Wenk numerous all.fcniale bands ilial have<br />
Portland,Oreg. flowered under tlie loose banner c'<br />
"punk rock." Tlic loci llial bands llke Ili~<br />
Is llic "new" Ms. a father? If so.*hen Au Pairs, the Modcllcs, llie Slils, llic Belle<br />
dld Uiis sex-cliarige opcratlon lake Stars, llic B.Glrls, and ttle (lo-Go's are<br />
place?<br />
not merely cull bonds (Ilic Go.Go's ore<br />
'Equal opportunity 1alliers"--In a the nrst lernule rock bond In Iilsloly lo<br />
plg's eyel'rhcday tliey lakcoff from work break lnlo the U.S. top 20) Is a source<br />
and take on the complele runnlng of ll~e 01 great prldc lo "punk" fcrninlsls llke<br />
household so that ri~ollicffi con have myself.<br />
tlmc to "be Involved in the lives 01 tlrelr It rnigli\ be uschll lo polnl out that<br />
children" al play.. . Illat's !lie day I'll con. I1 was "punk rockers" who started llie<br />
cede equal opportunlly lalhcrlng. Unlll Rock-Agalnsl-Raclsni arid Rockthen,<br />
the "discovery" 01 fatlicrhood Is Agalnsl-Scxlsm organlzatlons in Brllnln.<br />
only another grab for the goodlcs ... llie It is punk rockers who ore rcvlving a<br />
"joys." N. Sliorpc strong interest In forrns 01 black musk<br />
Castlelon, N.Y. lrom rliy(lim and blues llirougli soul,<br />
funk and disco, aRer llic ugly (and racist)<br />
I read with sadness "Is There Anylhlng<br />
a 28-Year-Old Can Teach Her<br />
anti-dlsco backlash 01 heavy rnelal fans<br />
In the lare'scvenllcs. And It Is "punk rock-<br />
Teenage Slsler?" by Calliy Cevoll (Feb- ers" who have produced llic rnost effecruory.<br />
1982). llwe who are In our lwenlles llve prolesl agalnsl violence lo women. In<br />
and thirties have nolliing totell our sisters Rhoda Dakar and the Speclal A.KA.'s<br />
that lheydon'talready know. thenour lib- haunting plece about rape etitltled 'The<br />
eration has cost us dearly indeed. To Bollcr."<br />
equole sexunllly solely wilh genital actlv- When I see a young wortion like<br />
Ily Is as allenaung as llic denlal or repres- Cevoll's slsler who is so wltlioul an Idellslon<br />
of female sexuality. No wonder we lily Uial she must ernulale a long-dead<br />
speak of the full physlcol expression of counterc~rllurc, I feel sorry lor her. She<br />
sekuality in negative terms (the loss 01 ccrtolnly can't expect the young men her<br />
vlrginlty).<br />
age who emulate the same counlerc~l<br />
In the ellort to combat centuries of Lure lo bcany different fromllielr predc<br />
repression of women as human beings cessors. (In my ~~perlen~e.lh~y're just as<br />
and as sexual belngs we have unlortu- scxlsL)<br />
nalely managed lo deliumanlze sex. Isn't As long as "punk" femlnlsts like my-<br />
It time ttial we renllze lhdtyoung men and self ore universally Ignored or conwomen<br />
need more than birth-control ln- demned by second-wave feminists, there<br />
formation? Isn't It Ume that we tell them can be no third wave of femlnlsm. It's o<br />
that sexuality Is a cruclal part of the total shame, because as a ihlrd.generallon<br />
personality, tile means Ulrougli whlcli we femlnlst (my grondrnolher, was a sufenter<br />
Into loving relotlonshlps that are froglst) I know how much I owe my preself.enhancing<br />
not self-destructive? Are decessors. We could learn from each<br />
we not yet liberaled enough to rccognlze olher, but not unlll we pul our prejudlccs<br />
tliat lndlscrimlnate sexual actlvlly is not behlnd us.<br />
synonymous wllli autonomy, and are we<br />
Deborah K. Lnzarolf<br />
not secure enough in our own sexualily<br />
Orinda. Calif.<br />
to tell that to our sisters and lo our<br />
brothers?<br />
"I wanted to keep my child,<br />
Mary Jo Nolin but was never offered<br />
Bellicsdn. Md.<br />
resources to do so"<br />
"As long as 'punk' feminists like I was vcry pleased lo see 11ie senslmyself<br />
ate ignored by second- uve, I ~OU~~I~UI letters from two ~dopt~vc<br />
wave feminists, there can be no mollicrs in the February issue. If more<br />
third wave ..."<br />
adoptlve parents lell as lhcy do, birth<br />
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mothers would not have lo slrlfer as<br />
I've nollccd . Uiat feminisls are much. In answer lo sonic Issues tliey<br />
quick lo jump on Ule bandwagon rolsed: the reason Illat many blrtli<br />
of support for any lrodlllonai female molhers. Including myself, ore so bltler.<br />
folkslngcr/songwritcr, and are even is because we were used, because vlr<br />
qulcker lo condemn all "punk rock." were llcd to, and because we hod no re.<br />
Apparenlly, ticcording to Calliy cholcc. We syrnpnllilze wilh IIlc pain 01<br />
Ccvoli and her ilk, the sell-dcslruclivc, women who ore lnletllle, arid know tlial 1<br />
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G'MaJJunr 1982<br />
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