Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption
Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption
Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption
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80-Rocky Mwnlain<br />
SaL, fhy 3, 1980, Denver, blo.<br />
A mother's search.<br />
. .<br />
for long-lost twins . ., I.. _.. . . .,<br />
By ARLENE SBOVALD<br />
IsdryJat Nm Nlhm<br />
SALIDA, Colo. - When a judge In Colm& Ohlo, ordered<br />
BwemqSmltb-Lo t m over her 3-mon.th;ald lwim, Tom Howard<br />
anU~.St.ulle& In the court on May 13,1916, it never rxcwd<br />
In her Lo,pmtert bmw, "You didn't quatloo a judge or even<br />
our husband La thor & I war 19 ycan old and bad been nlwd<br />
%a convent mast of my &. I had been taught toobey."<br />
Sbe h 61 and Mrs. Jpha.Redflcld, now, and Uva La SaUda,<br />
Colo. And sbeN11 h o In fInd ~ hvmnr ~<br />
(bat day In 1938 when her then-husband,<br />
.Gll&gSml.& 22, came home aad.lold her to el the twim ready<br />
for aa mthg. That ootlng ended La a judge's $ambers. Unlroom<br />
to her. Smlth had Tied for dlmrce, sagtag he no lmgv wanled ibe<br />
marlhilltv of a wUe and children - and since Rovrmn could-<br />
She vividly m h<br />
n't'kare for he children herself, he was givlng<br />
- -<br />
them up fir adop<br />
UOP. <<br />
'Ibejud eorderrdh&Lo~(hrbnbIamvio(hecaut<br />
"He mi! that shce 1 had been a rnrd of the courlall my life'<br />
and had gotten pregnant kIore my mamiage, hc was sun I could-<br />
Features<br />
n't Lake orom care of the chlldreo!' Rmem;lrP Wield recalled.<br />
"I 6zo't even permitted Lo &kc a phoie dl.1 know thls<br />
sounbc unLeUevahle today, but Uma wen dUferenl Lheal had no<br />
control over the slhwUoti.l was jwt a woman and, as such, I had<br />
no ri~hk - or at lev1 now 1 was aware of!'<br />
Rosemary herself had been given up for adoptlon by her<br />
unwed mother. Wh~0 she was 8, her imter mother dled. When her<br />
fcster father remarried he ul her loba convent busehis new<br />
wife didn't want a child, m 8 Rasemary then beoune a ward of the<br />
court.<br />
She war mised by nuns unU she was 18, when her father dem~nded<br />
Lbal sbe return home, gel r job and pay mom and M.<br />
"I did what I was Lold," hcmay RcdIield said. "Lhe way<br />
good girls wen supposed Lo in thme dap."<br />
S3.d -d-8-1. "-1 hat- 6-<br />
Aflcr42year$<br />
R m q Redfield is<br />
s t [ l l ~ ~ f~e<br />
o r<br />
twim a courl ordered<br />
her to give up when<br />
. t6ey were<br />
months old. She is 61<br />
and ff ver fo Wda.<br />
I*o~?l!*DIur*rWI<br />
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