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Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption

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80-Rocky Mwnlain<br />

SaL, fhy 3, 1980, Denver, blo.<br />

A mother's search.<br />

. .<br />

for long-lost twins . ., I.. _.. . . .,<br />

By ARLENE SBOVALD<br />

IsdryJat Nm Nlhm<br />

SALIDA, Colo. - When a judge In Colm& Ohlo, ordered<br />

BwemqSmltb-Lo t m over her 3-mon.th;ald lwim, Tom Howard<br />

anU~.St.ulle& In the court on May 13,1916, it never rxcwd<br />

In her Lo,pmtert bmw, "You didn't quatloo a judge or even<br />

our husband La thor & I war 19 ycan old and bad been nlwd<br />

%a convent mast of my &. I had been taught toobey."<br />

Sbe h 61 and Mrs. Jpha.Redflcld, now, and Uva La SaUda,<br />

Colo. And sbeN11 h o In fInd ~ hvmnr ~<br />

(bat day In 1938 when her then-husband,<br />

.Gll&gSml.& 22, came home aad.lold her to el the twim ready<br />

for aa mthg. That ootlng ended La a judge's $ambers. Unlroom<br />

to her. Smlth had Tied for dlmrce, sagtag he no lmgv wanled ibe<br />

marlhilltv of a wUe and children - and since Rovrmn could-<br />

She vividly m h<br />

n't'kare for he children herself, he was givlng<br />

- -<br />

them up fir adop<br />

UOP. <<br />

'Ibejud eorderrdh&Lo~(hrbnbIamvio(hecaut<br />

"He mi! that shce 1 had been a rnrd of the courlall my life'<br />

and had gotten pregnant kIore my mamiage, hc was sun I could-<br />

Features<br />

n't Lake orom care of the chlldreo!' Rmem;lrP Wield recalled.<br />

"I 6zo't even permitted Lo &kc a phoie dl.1 know thls<br />

sounbc unLeUevahle today, but Uma wen dUferenl Lheal had no<br />

control over the slhwUoti.l was jwt a woman and, as such, I had<br />

no ri~hk - or at lev1 now 1 was aware of!'<br />

Rosemary herself had been given up for adoptlon by her<br />

unwed mother. Wh~0 she was 8, her imter mother dled. When her<br />

fcster father remarried he ul her loba convent busehis new<br />

wife didn't want a child, m 8 Rasemary then beoune a ward of the<br />

court.<br />

She war mised by nuns unU she was 18, when her father dem~nded<br />

Lbal sbe return home, gel r job and pay mom and M.<br />

"I did what I was Lold," hcmay RcdIield said. "Lhe way<br />

good girls wen supposed Lo in thme dap."<br />

S3.d -d-8-1. "-1 hat- 6-<br />

Aflcr42year$<br />

R m q Redfield is<br />

s t [ l l ~ ~ f~e<br />

o r<br />

twim a courl ordered<br />

her to give up when<br />

. t6ey were<br />

months old. She is 61<br />

and ff ver fo Wda.<br />

I*o~?l!*DIur*rWI<br />

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