I., .* .', ~oh-sea& . , . j ' ::.,. fbr. adipked-cliifdren. .: ' i i ,.. ' ! ' I - ' . .. .. ;." .,, , , . ,.. a .I . ..: ,. . mma llarlman Is looking lor, lhls arc the ,ones who come oul ;he:,;: 76?3iyii?Zid son. ills name. ,, l~eallhicst. We've been programmed by: might be Daniel Joscph Pcm- soclely into bclicving lhlssoclal worlicr, : beflon ,--, P. - - .-, .---, - m1ghl be becnure,! ~arhege of golng ?If and mnklng a hpw; " hls namc%Xld'have bcen.changcd by , f the couple wlth two other childrpri who' ! ,' adopled Em~na,llartmen:sson. ...I t; r.:::. , ' That. Isball ~mma Harlman of;.,{ Rensielacr knows aboul her son. She:, when shewah 17 and who is lhe lounder,. ,hasn't seen hlm slnce he :was nitie;.;t of Concerned Unit4 Birthparen&, inmonths old. Now hha wan& to llnd hlm: . other~organlzallon that helpsseerchers, < 1: lo fill aha1 she ,ca!l% ~1hc.empI);npql"~j compares a molher't surrendering of a . i inher life. ".. 7. ., k . . ,' :; ; .,.',.'I: chlld for aqopllon.jq,a 80ldkr,~ptil? *. , June stej-ns.of tjaranac ke has en':j. righkfn ~~b~narn: '.. 'i;.: q f= .,:. . cmpty spot too. She is, looking tori$\ ,! ~~l,,,j, you .arc put: in& a , :~llcrnadclle Jean Dully, the daughter: al("allon ,.here you have topcrtorm an .. I ;he gave upIo~t~~year~ago.:i;b; l,iinn&ral act,'! she says.-"AndJusl l]ke. .. "I lhlny of' her ,all lhe llme," says!,:; vclerans who retu ncdilrom Vletnam, It .June Slerns."? Want lo talk 10 her; (ekes seven. to d lght yeari~for.blrlh ! want lo see her. I.wanl lo know..~hat\\'~arenls to.~wnkcn !o lhelr slluallon. " she looks llkt. I don't know how shc- :,,. Whal they did was an unnatural acl. : feels nboul me. Shemay hale he; She:',: because when a mdlher and. chlld docsn'l know I didn't want lvgivo her.;~'scpara~e.~olunlarily, or so-called yoli ,. up." ; 1. :( F~~:c ,, : :;'; untarlly. 11's unnatural!' .;";;!,: :,:,A .- . .'!:: , , ' r !..,,,..' .;;, : Bolh womcn are.doing what most af',';'.'. slualon 30 years ngd , ; soclcty has been telling them not 10 do ,cpLegory, of;.::so-calied *. .lor the past 30~camThe~.are~art;ofa volun(arilyv: ::,,;.,: . :, ,;',. ,,,: f"' ! i growlng movement' of: women who !. '* -. . '. . . surrender& children lo adoption agen: '. she War. 19, unmarried and living 10 i cles and social service olfl,~ and now?. &ranace Lake with her pa~n~Whe? , I know who their chlldrei, afaj:rshe .daled :a (Paul Smlth'8"College' I and are living. . .',., '. . , I. !. student. She became pregnant. 'llei pareqls sent her to,,Albanl9 haye.W.Q . They are womcn who are ov(rcomq ., bby, , .. . . ,.. . . ........ J-.?,,;:!. . ::.i:i..):,.:'I::.f i, wllh amhlvalenl feelings every .y ear. ., . , . ...;.I J.' about lhls IIme as nnoUler Nalionel ~fieb. lee Ig5% she gave blfth b? ; Adoption week hglns. his , ycor,,~.. b "~ girl whom she named Bemadelk' . : j'wcck"bcglnstaday. , , , ., Jean Dully. On19 a few prrdydetqlh :' . . andalonglngremalp. : ,:;:'. !:;:$ ' ~osl dl soclcly tells they women, u~cavc well enaugh dlone? nut organl. . "I couldn'l' hold her' or feed ner;" i tolions that help blrlh pjrenls flnd lhelr remembers; ' pounds , rl~lldrensay."Don'td~nyour molhcrly ' (2OU"C"S when born'Shc had % I lnsltnc~v even though the )law and ' .C kcpt,ln'an incupal~+~Thcy lwk-me : . Tl~e founder of one such organizalio~i, ''
~~ - ----. -.. . 1 Stem doesn't how if hcr ehlld" name L rull i~vmu~forado~~m'h.vem~~md. Dmudelle Jun Dully. Iler Mms may bn brm Alter 24 Yran wllh lllllsb go m J w Swrn't changed rhm de wu adopled. he DI.D d-.t uu- of nndlw bnd.ugbw my rrm lay but know II b n dau~htn wanu to meel her nalunl she'lnollbovtlorlvau~lhe~rrh 1 molher. '"1 W blve b&." rd urn *I dm't know. .:.I "She mlghl hold It agalmt me that I gave her up. have lowall lsdlcs' BUI I dldn't want to llve herVp..l wu lo& to dve 6lrl.r ~aureen Jqmm e-un dlrrctir ot herup." 1 Wlhollc CIuriUu AdopUm Stnlm, a prn of :hs up do hu lhaught abbut the propriety of CMnmlmlly M.tcmIly Scnicu up Jun Slam' birn~cllng lhechlld rhc gave away and whelbcrrha cham. of nndlng hcr daughter are dim b u s t ! muld td lnvadlng her ehlldr llle unannounced. h e .Ihtm Were nUnY mare adopllo~ 10 yean ago lhrn hu lhovgbt ah1 the pmrlhlsshak thsnewrprpr thm are Lodry. A h "If tba adopUw wun't I all mlgbl have cavwd Ocmrdrlle Jean Dully If her handled by an asmq. lhm I'm alrald lhlr woman name had no1 been dunged and 11 she had mrrr has Ion1 brd mad L'm not uylnl lllhauldn't b. I bnn lold lhe wasadoplrd. punued. I'm ollm aurprlrd by lhe Imll~U? ?uaYtd 11's tm late .II~ a11 lhaa ymn: dt W'P PPIQflnd@(la~erlnlonna~.Um ' Wmdm'Maytd I shouldn'l won. .. IU Jwl Ilks lu Slrlrr Maureen uld beragmy m r i v 1,qulrla ~ met her. to ulk to her. I don't want to Interfere . lmm molhen lmtlngfor Ilulradopledrhlldm but . , v!lh hrrlllc. I Jut wan1 to ~t her." not as many u fmm ado Id cbl:d-n wanling to .,ma offldal lnfomlla Ik.1 would help items kmwaboutlhelrblologlcafprmu bnd her daughter Is probably In one ol scvm. ateel 7he mothrn who have mirn~cled ur hrvc bd ole nhlncu that am veurcd wllh m mclal bar and sprlllc requa&* rh. up 7hey8v. had dmlm pbdlak,localcd lnthealllmofthe adopllonunllol and they lhlnk wmrlhlng mlghl tdwmng wtlh their lhe Alblny Counly DrprrlmrnlolSoclal Swvin* chlld and (hay want lo mahaure ~hrtsvcrylhlng i. .:County adopllon wnlm svpnlwr Barbara allrlghl." lynch up slalc law larhldr her dl~laln# any Tho agency hu acled " 1nlcrmedlar)l in ldcnlllylng lnlormallan in her llla wllhoul n cnun munilln1 adoplnl ehlldren and blologlul prrmu, Vrder lmm a Judgc. Cclllng such an order Is bul always wllh tho adopllve prrcnu' consent. dlfllcult In New York stale. In (he prn. wen Slrler hlaurm ssp wmr .or( ofinlddlemm. a ..
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