Articles Book III - Pg 300-560 (Birthparents) - triadoption

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~ - Phil, Connie lose child to . I . foster 'babysitters' .. .. Ih.1 rlmL - . . How doptlon aem, tbm pmcodm foUmsd, iba w#la and (be pmblsnunnly m ptlblle, sin- ava -mi md a~r dopdon dlsp11.s an snld Lo Nsw Jenoy. A dlrpdo ws adopUm uvfacod ibis p a yur In Mlddlswx Cotmly, whersacouplaIs O:hUa~a I d htus la bvathek rulmal chUd nmwod tmm It! ubpdw pawls and n(md la tbm. 'Ibs cue 01 Mr. and Mrs. Phlllp SomUao h. dram wldsspread a(lcaUoa, ll~enporq aver th.1 use. . . *-&.. =iI,~~i~ . , ~ ' 7 muldn'l ~ vlblr pr U* W Ira." Mlnh uld, un*r, 1 number d L~rn mllnvcd lo mrt IR ndh& Eva rhn Ulo mut clullmlm lbarl JarmfsmuIn~U*Lmtlrin~ LalelUcdhomHcahmdPNIhm OLdadrllarUmrgatnr(U*PImllr md mIlA-% R&b. dmmta Iw U* hum ~ huld d ~ mr mmq dd mold La ural lo help ddnr rht hrl bom 8 M]ar lrsll rmu In U w d Mlnh ul4 Swmar Mr I $" ~d,plnhl,rmuwlloCmnllur, MI Uut it wdd mr( thrm wm to mas Ihek chW. And Mlnti u!d po.mrnrnotmRIUY(OIL Derplla Iht cosls, tba emollonal lnulu. Uu opnfng up d UY pmaU p l d ~ thek llrn lo mut and abk YTYU~): ~ b. &xenllnw ur won't
~ ~~ ~- ~ ~ . ~ ~ ~~ ~ ~ ~ --. ~ . . .... . 4 AR~CLESBY.. ! . ' I .. PATRICIA TURNER '. .. C-N staff wrltar ., 1 '. Back In IOm, Phll and Connle tlorehllno lay they at lhlr advln from an adoptlon 1 "From lhe very beglnnlng I wanted to keep lhe baby," Connle explnlned. "My : agency o flchl eoncernlng lhek lnfant . motherandfalhersaldU you want to keep daughter, Jennifer, who had been turned the hby, you cm't slay ln lhh howc.' over to later prenlr: "It war my molher who adked lhe "Thhk of U,aa amme babyalltlng for doelm ahout adopllon," Connie id, and ).our chlld." onn the ChUdrcn and FamUy Soclcty of PhU rememben saying, "WeU, leu lh8 Ellubelh was mntrded, she sold, the babyslllcr we're h p ~ yw , don't need lo prurure buUL babyslt any more. Connla recall, it vlvldly everybody But lha "babyallten" Hem awarded wanted her to glve up lhe baby - her JennUer by lhe murb and lhar dUI have nnrenla. lhe doctor, lhe hosoilal and lhs lhe dd. - Connl~andPhUSonnlInoare Uke mnny young couples. Phll works two oh b - of the s&lety, Junu Jweeney, that she lhllta ha a chemlcal rator at AE In had chan ed her rnlml and wanted Lo kccp EUlabelh, lha re& of% ~rne drlr~ig hh . the ch~j, before JennUer was born. mker for an aubbody ah Cmvlle sald Swune told her he could by . ~ mnle k q ~lek amd%x apart. lo mve her an unh t molher. mat rpollesr on r itreel d nut two- Purman e u ~ d he was f homea. Tha aemnd chUd 1% "appaUed by lha wdua md unfalr m%d LLu Mule, a- delhhted caiidon d Mr. Swune !' with boUl of them mnd .$a nuny by8 ~weene~, ~ n n ~ s n d ~ * a r r o ~ t ~ ~ )rand lha Uvlnp monb and " Ub ' when Lold of Connls's w h to - ,. keeptk ch~d. The Judge warned adoptlon Tnmedw~: plelura dCwnie and anenden Um "muat r& lhe law. and PhIl decorale tbs mom, wllh ah UtUe n& apply p&- kiond lhe capiclty &nta Claw flgurea on lha coffee tabla of Ua unwed mother under lhe dr- . ;: Ihe Softnllnos a m hanhakhg md tilt&ncta, datwyhj lha yolunt.rhuc : rrsponalble. But nellhcr Wlu very *BUY d her decfilon!' .. :t ', 8 , rbaut hlr fullnga a about whal #(I lbem The 1Cy)yr;old trpicbnt motheri'. rprt rmm dher young coupla. couldn't lim lo JcnnUcrlr falher -?hot wu 16 un old hen & um PhO hdlnd dltln't wmta mrn-&m7T-r -t?%& Giiiii eia;';"rhU niii I fNld. PNI lald he wasn't ready lo gel thm by m#{lhe had not marrlld her and '1 nurrlcd JennUer war bmn on Ma 6, her mdb& .wouldn't W ,him.VMt lhelr 1814, in St. Elhabelh'n. . Hoap I, trl, ., hmc. -- .-. EUIskUL "I didn't wanl mmcone Lo kU me I had Alter what iha'dcsctltm BB a rev Lo gel mrrrted," uld Ph& who wan 18 at dllrl~~lltkne, Connla gave u JennUer for the he. "I dldn'1 wanl Lo do it unless rdoPUoh ~hodlnunedlatef rho bled Lo W s and I w m we. An awful lot of rmounnlhea nmmL Ph J had already people gel d l r d " ded to have fmnla #Ira Lo hlm sva If ford Lo marry Connle, PhU said "It . elm tha bkh, ' wouldn't have bun a good rcIaUonshl . Bolh faUed In lhek etfcila. JennUer .Everyone sald 'get marrled! I dldn't n:!e went Lo a Unlon County couple. PhU went out nuqflng W e , but not just lhen!' Inlo court In JuIy, 1975, and W e olned In be Mlgatlon. In Augud d lha I year the. --, wcm . -.. maded. .-.. .-. -- .- -. Su erlm Court Judge Davld Furman As PhU rrmembera It, Connle couldn't adqulckly Ulal Scptnnkr rullng lhal dcdde whal Lo do - keep lhe chUd or put J d c r belon ed rllh ~onnla snd PhL ber u for adopuon. But Su~erior &urt ~udge B8ruch ~e~d- ~hgdldn'twanlto push her ln\omakIng d Firman'# order on r declalon . un. . mom Uw he wmkd Lo k pushed. "If Cmle ...... ~- .~~~... . ~ -~ ~ Superlor court upheld FIIrmaII, ~Lln 11" Phll gave ~ l up Ule baby, I would he d kUated before lhe ER! *lr I wu tm puy (~egauym Jennlfa klon ed wllh Cmle md Phi prmla would ado& ' Agaln Urn adop!lon agen appealed, UIL "1 flgured I had n much rlghl to my Ume to lhe New ~eney~uprrme Cowl. chUd u ILI molhu dl& I took It for Andh" 10 monUu pkaed, Febnur~ to December, unlll lhe Supreme Court gmn*&" But er Phil JennUda blrih, PhU became declded the Sonntlnm would have Lo wded because Connle na klng kept omre -... . Uut relumlnu . " lhelr chlld Lo lhem ~~ ~. ~~~~~~~ 6cpanledfran JennUer. Connle'r mother wouldn't hurl JennUn: Ifowever, lhe had told tho hospllal arda not lo let lhe supreme Court took the declalon away . bay vlalt Connie or $ baby. fran Furman and nave i Lo r new lrLl PNI war eaughtmcaklng In twlce, but a fudge, lhlrd the ad In and held JennUer. He Superlor Court Judge John Stmumtrm alsa went to a homltal mlal worker and held UlaI JmnUa should star with lhe naked that ..~~. hh nhs aooenr on lhe blrlh -~ - ~. munle who rcccked ha from he adm . ~ nrtlllcalc becaus "It WM m dnu hlic UO; agency. Although namm for ~ i e and m ~ onn~e wou~~l trlked'ftnlo were not made publlclhe hue waa lhe adopUoh 1lh muut WBB lurned "% whe er Jennifer would k harmed by down. hlmnwhlle Connle ~ l her d mother. the dodw and hwpllal aulhorlllea kept. her "How would ym In1 not watchh your fromatelnnthe dauchler crow no?" lhe ~ounn f ~~~ ~~~~~ InlanL .. "The ...- ddor sold It alher was beat lohelp me make up my mlnd," ;dk& EV& whenjennlfer &ti back to , Connle mid. When ahc lnslsled she wanted hem, as both Connle and Phll belleve wUI to keep her baby, Connle ssld, a woman happm evenluoUy, "You can't erase from the ado~llon BaencY -. kept . trrlna .- to wIilibl'a hap ened. You can't say when you change her nilnd. w a n w b did .a thhga and we 1 Cmnle dld have JmIIUcr fm a month dld lhaa @," PNI uld. .ma they len ~ls hwpltr~, out me
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A woman of sixty, nrloptcd in IIIIR
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\Noman f i g h t s w i rig By MELES
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1. MIKE WINERIP / Ilrro!6slc11 lrrr
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T Iris case is based on irrfor- for
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"I wanled to keep my chlld, but was
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