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102 SELF-ESTEEM RESEARCH, THEORY, AND PRACTICElarge (Bednar, Wells & Peterson, 1989; Pope, McHale & Craighead,1988; Sappington, 1989). Above all, coping well means that a person isable to influence the situations of life or to deal with its problems with areasonable degree of competence. One way to help increase self-esteem,then, is to teach people how to solve problems more effectively <strong>and</strong> efficiently(Bednar et al., 1989; Pope et al., 1988). This type of work may bedone as a structured activity in the therapeutic setting. For instance, it ispossible to break up learning this skill into more manageable steps, eachof which can be practiced <strong>and</strong> evaluated until learning occurs (D’Zurilla& Goldfried, 1971; D’Zurilla & Nezu, 2001). These steps typicallyinclude learning how to recognize that a problem exists, being able toidentify possible responses <strong>and</strong> their likely outcomes, knowing how toselect the best alternative given a particular situation, <strong>and</strong> having theability to develop a realistic plan to reach that goal. The process of learningthese skills is facilitated by a good teacher, a non-threatening environment,appropriate reinforcement, <strong>and</strong> supervised practice, all ofwhich are fairly st<strong>and</strong>ard practices in problem solving work.Several positive things can happen for self-esteem once this skill hasbeen acquired. First, knowing how to better solve problems increases anindividual’s chances of being successful <strong>and</strong> we saw that certain types ofsuccess are a source of self-esteem. Second, the technique is flexibleenough to allow us to target a particular area that is especially troublesometo an individual client <strong>and</strong> to then help the person develop a realisticproblem-solving strategy that is based on maximizing the individual’sstrengths while minimizing their weaknesses. Indeed, “individualizing”(Fischer, 1986) training in problem solving skills may be the ideal way toaddress specific individuals with particular self-esteem themes. Thus,increasing competence through better problem-solving skills can be donein ways that are sensitive to age, gender, culture, <strong>and</strong> so on.Two Types of Formats May Be Used to Enhance <strong>Self</strong>-<strong>Esteem</strong>There is some consensus about what we might call “format factors” thatare helpful in enhancing self-esteem. The first concerns a program’s operationalformat <strong>and</strong> it allows us to have some design flexibility. Oneapproach is to build a program around the traditional one-to-one relationshipbetween client <strong>and</strong> clinician (Bednar, Wells & Peterson, 1989;Harter, 1999; Mruk, 1995, 1999). A key advantage of this intense selfesteemencounter is that it focuses on identifying <strong>and</strong> underst<strong>and</strong>ing aparticular individual’s self-esteem themes <strong>and</strong> problems in considerabledetail both behaviorally <strong>and</strong> developmentally. The therapist <strong>and</strong> clientmay then target these issues as central therapeutic projects. Another advantageis that the process can go on for longer periods of time, meaning that

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