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Major <strong>Self</strong>-<strong>Esteem</strong> Theories <strong>and</strong> Programs 145are severely mentally ill <strong>and</strong> has been the focus of a longer term researchproject (1993a, 1993b) aimed at testing its efficacy, something that isvery rare in this field.Second, the approach also brings up a self-esteem issue that most scientificresearch <strong>and</strong> practice tend to avoid. We encountered this questionin Chapter 3 when we looked at the humanistic approach to defining selfesteem,particularly in regard to the spiritual possibilities associated withits transpersonal school. Crocker <strong>and</strong> Park (2003, 2004) <strong>and</strong> Crocker<strong>and</strong> Nuer (2003, 2004) also made mention of this dimension of selfesteemwhen they showed how contingent self-esteem that is based oncompetence alone leads to a psychological dead end. Burns talked aboutthis issue using the metaphor of a ladder.If you feel worthless <strong>and</strong> inferior, you may start out on the groundbecause you have very little self-esteem. On the first rung of the ladderyou develop conditional self-esteem. . . . Once you have conditionalself-esteem, you can climb up to the next rung on the ladder. On thisstep you develop unconditional self-esteem. You realize that self-esteemis a gift that you <strong>and</strong> all human beings receive at birth. . . . On the nextstep, you can adopt the even more radical position that there is no suchthing as self-esteem, just as there is no such thing as a worthwhileperson or a worthless person. . . . This solution to the problem of selfesteemis in the Buddhist tradition because self-esteem is rejected as auseless illusion. . . . The death of your pride <strong>and</strong> your ego can lead tonew life <strong>and</strong> to a more profound vision. (1993a, pp. 186–188)Note that I am not necessarily agreeing with the position that “egolessness”is the ultimate goal of a search for self-esteem. However, such aconcern does raise some important self-esteem questions such as how oneunderst<strong>and</strong>s it in relation to approaches that de-emphasize the importanceof the self or even see it as an obstacle to reaching “higher” levelsof functioning. Harter (1999) <strong>and</strong> others also notice this issue in relationto Zen. Having done some work in that area (Mruk & Hartzell, 2003), Ithink some insight may be gained by exploring the relationship amongvirtue, self-esteem, <strong>and</strong> selflessness. The connection is that acting virtuouslyoften involves behaving in ways that transcend the self, particularlythe ego. However, that line of thought is highly speculative at best <strong>and</strong>certainly beyond the scope of our work.Summary of Findings about Enhancement ProgramsAt this point the phenomenologically significant question becomes whatdo these major self-esteem programs show us about how to design a goodprogram? In other words, is there a general structure that underlies scientific

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