Self-Esteem Research, Theory, and Practice Toward a Positive ...
Self-Esteem Research, Theory, and Practice Toward a Positive ...
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The Crucial Issue of Defining <strong>Self</strong>-<strong>Esteem</strong> 25to a given person constitute one set of self-esteem experiences. As mightbe expected, when outcomes are positive or successful, participantsreported an increase in self-esteem, <strong>and</strong> when they are not, a correspondingdecrease occurred. The other type of situation identified by Epsteinthat has such an effect on self-esteem are those that involve acceptance orrejection by significant others. Like before, the link to self-esteem in thesemoments is that situations leading to acceptance result in reports ofincreases in self-esteem <strong>and</strong> those that involve rejection were associatedwith reports of decreases in it. Others have done work that comes to similarconclusions. For instance, Tafarodi <strong>and</strong> Milne (2002) asked 244 studentsto respond to a retrospective measure of life events on two separateoccasions, some 4 weeks apart. Their results correspond to Epstein’s,with failure affecting participants’ sense of “self-competence” <strong>and</strong> negativesocial events affecting their reports of “self-liking.” Clearly, this workoffers support for the position that both competence <strong>and</strong> worthiness arelinked to self-esteem at the lived level of human experience.In addition to affirming that competence <strong>and</strong> worthiness are linkedto self-esteem, other related work reveals that it is actually the relationshipbetween competence <strong>and</strong> worthiness that creates self-esteem. Forexample, in another study entitled, “Experiences That Produce EnduringChanges in <strong>Self</strong>-Concept,” Epstein (1979, p. 73) asked a total of 270 collegeparticipants to describe in writing “the one experience in their lifetimethat produced the greatest positive change in their self-concept <strong>and</strong>the one experience that produced the greatest negative change in theirself-concept.” The analysis of this data, which were gathered from almostequal numbers of men <strong>and</strong> women, identified that there are three types ofsuch experiences that occur most often in adulthood. They are having todeal with a new environment, responding to a challenging problem thatrequires the person to acquire new responses, <strong>and</strong> gaining or losing significantrelationships. Using smaller numbers of subjects but studyingthem in a much more in-depth fashion, Mruk (1983) examined anotherclass of self-esteem experiences, one that seems to be powerful enough tochange it at the deepest levels, a possibility that is extremely important inthis field if it is to help people live better.This work was conducted with a small number of participants whowere reasonably well diversified in terms of age, gender, <strong>and</strong> socioeconomicstatus. They were asked to describe in detail a time when they were pleasedwith themselves in a biographically crucial way <strong>and</strong> a time when they weredispleased with themselves in the same fashion (Mruk, 1981, 1983). Then,they were interviewed extensively about these powerful self-esteemmoments. The experiences spontaneously chosen by all the subjects can bedescribed as encountering a situation that challenged them to deal withwhat could be called a strong approach–avoidance situation, but one with