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the capitalist society, the bourgeois culture, the Freudian unconscious... and now you will call it growing pains.
But you are simply shifting the responsibility.
The real thing is that you are suffering from your expectations. When they are not fulfilled and they are never
going to be fulfilled frustration arises, failure arises, and you feel neglected, as if existence does not care for you.
Drop expectations for the future. Remain open, remain available to whatsoever happens, but don’t plan ahead.
Don’t make any psychological, fixed ideas about the future that things should be like this and much more
suffering will disappear. These two are the root causes of suffering.
And the third is: the Human Potential movement lacks something essential. It tries to help you to grow, but
it has not yet been able to create a meditative space in you. So there is constant struggle, effort, will, but no
relaxation, no rest. Hence the third thing to be remembered and all suffering will disappear: create meditative
energy, create a meditative space within you. Western methods lack that something which is very essential.
That’s why here in my commune the effort is to use all the Western methods side by side with all the Eastern
methods. This may be the only place in the whole world today where East and West are really meeting, and
not meeting in a diplomatic way as they meet in the UN. Here they are really merging not politically, not
diplomatically, because a diplomatic meeting is not a meeting, it is only a facade, it is pseudo. It is a love meeting
that is happening here. For the first time East and West are in a love affair.
The West has grown a few very important methods: gestalt, encounter, primal, bio-energetics and many more.
The East has also grown many methods: zazen, Vipassana, Sufi whirling, yoga, Tantra. Their approaches are
different, so different that both are only halves of one whole; hence both lack something. The Eastern methods
can create a meditative space, but they make you so introverted that you start escaping from life; all Eastern
methods have proved escapist in the past. You want to go to a monastery, you want to go to the Himalayas, you
want to go to a cave somewhere and to live alone. They teach you how to be alone, joyously alone but then
something is missed.
Life is also relationship, life is also togetherness, life is also communion. It is beautiful to be blissful when you
are alone, but that is only half the story; you should be blissful also when you are together with someone. And
when you are blissful with someone, the bliss reaches a higher peak. When you are alone you are like a solo flute
player; when you are blissful together in relationship, the music is more like an orchestra.
The West has created methods which give you more impetus to be extroverts. They allow you methods, skills
to relate, and to enjoy relationship. They are love methods, but something is missing. You enjoy relationship,
but whenever you are alone... and essentially you are alone. You are born alone and you will die alone, and at
the deepest core of your being you are always alone. So on the surface you remain happy, but deep down a subtle
current of misery continues. You cannot encounter yourself, you cannot face yourself, you cannot meet yourself.
The West has failed because all that it has developed is extroversion; the East has failed because all that it has
developed is introversion. And man is neither extrovert nor introvert.
I would like it to be on record that Carl Gustav Jung’s typology is absolutely wrong. Man cannot be divided
so easily into categories that somebody is an extrovert and somebody is an introvert because man is a totality, a
wholeness. He has an inside and he has an outside, and both have to be nourished and both have to be fulfilled.
So if you are only following Western methods you will be going through much pain because you will not be able
to create a meditative space through them. If you are following only Eastern methods you will be able to create
a meditative space, but you will become absolutely useless in the world, and you will miss the enrichment that
comes with communion with other human beings.
My effort here is to create the first synthesis between extroversion and introversion and help man to become
so capable of both, together, simultaneously, so easily able to move from extroversion to introversion and from
introversion to extroversion, that there is no need to divide man into such categories. Man can become so fluid.
It is as simple as when you come out of your house: you don’t think that you are becoming extrovert coming
out of your house. When you feel it is cold inside and outside there are no clouds and it is so sunny, you come
out, but you don’t think at all. You don’t decide, ”Now I want to be an extrovert.” Or when the sun becomes too
hot and you start feeling the heat, you don’t make a deliberate decision, ”I should go in. Now I want to be an
introvert.” No, when the sun is too hot you simply move in! And when inside it is cold you come out. Coming out
of your house or going into the house is not a problem at all, because you are free from the inner and the outer.
My effort here is to help you to be free from the inner and the outer, because you are neither the inner nor the
outer, you are something transcendental to both. The inner and the outer are just parts of your personality; it is
the house in which you live which has an outside and an inside. But your awareness has no inside and no outside.
So these three things are to be remembered: drop the past, drop future expectations, and third, create a
synthesis between extroversion and introversion... and all misery disappears.