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284 <strong>THE</strong> <strong>DHAMMAPADA</strong>: <strong>THE</strong> <strong>WAY</strong> <strong>OF</strong> <strong>THE</strong> <strong>BUDDHA</strong>, <strong>VOL</strong>. 9-<strong>12</strong><br />

Once a high court judge came to me. His wife used to come to me. I was surprised, because the wife always<br />

used to say that he is very much against me and he does not want her to listen to me or read my books or to go<br />

and see me. But whenever I visited that city she was always coming.<br />

So I was surprised. I asked him, ”Your wife always says you are very much against me.”<br />

He said, ”Not that I am very much against you I am simply afraid that.... My wife is already crazy, and what<br />

you are saying, if it gets into her mind, she exaggerates everything. You will create more trouble for me.”<br />

I asked him, ”Why have you come?”<br />

He said, ”I have just come to say to you that if she says that she has cancer, reduce it to a headache. Don’t be<br />

bothered about her cancer. I have suffered my whole life. <strong>The</strong>n I have learned this lesson: she exaggerates.”<br />

And in fact that was the case. Every time she used to come she was talking about cancer. She was telling that<br />

she has cancer of the heart and this and that and the husband said she had nothing! Just a hypochondriac... she<br />

goes on exaggerating.<br />

A hypochondriac died. Before he was dying his wife asked, ”Have you some last words?”<br />

He said, ”Yes. On my gravestone write in big letters: Now do you believe me or not?”<br />

<strong>The</strong> first thing for you is to bring things down to the level of reality. It is difficult, Vandan, particularly so for a<br />

woman. <strong>The</strong>y live in fancy. When you fall in love you think you have fallen in love with a Greek god, and by the<br />

time the honeymoon is finished you know he is nothing but a goddamned Greek! Within seven days the Greek<br />

god is nothing but a goddamned Greek.<br />

And again it will happen. Again you will fall in love, and again you will create a great fancy, you will create<br />

projections. And all your projections are going to be shattered sooner or later, because reality has no obligation<br />

to fulfill your projections.<br />

So first bring down your idea of misery to the fact, to the real. And then it is not difficult to get out of it. <strong>The</strong>n<br />

the second thing is to be aware of it. Just be aware of it, and you are out of it because you can be aware only if<br />

you are not it.<br />

That is the miracle of awareness. When you observe something one thing is certain, absolutely certain: that<br />

you are not it. <strong>The</strong> observer is never the observed. <strong>The</strong> observed is there as an object confronting you. You are<br />

the observer, you are the subject.<br />

So misery is there, pain is there or pleasure, or whatsoever experience is there you are not it. You are out of<br />

it!<br />

Two ham actors were moaning about how tough things were in the motion picture business.<br />

”I haven’t had a part for over ten years,” one of the thespians sighed.<br />

”That’s nothing,” the other ham said. ”I’ve not worked since sound pictures came in.”<br />

”That’s really tough.”<br />

”You bet it is. I wish to hell I could figure some way to get out of this business.”<br />

For forty years you are not in the business, and you are still figuring out how to get out of it!<br />

Just watch. <strong>The</strong>se two steps, Vandan: first, bring your misery to the level of reality, and then watch it because<br />

only reality can be observed; fictions cannot be observed, you become identified with them. Once the reality is<br />

there, it is objective; watch it, and suddenly a great realization happens. You are the watcher, you are out of it.<br />

You ask me, ”How can I get out of it?” Vandan, you are out of it. Right now you are out of it! It is only an<br />

illusion that you are in it. If you want to believe you can go on believing that you are in it. Otherwise you can<br />

snap out of it any moment. Try. Try to snap out of it. Snap your fingers and slap your face and wake up!<br />

<strong>The</strong> third question:<br />

Question 3<br />

BELOVED MASTER, ARE YOU AGAINST GARLIC? I HAVE BEEN EATING IT SINCE MY CHILDHOOD<br />

AND I DON’T THINK THAT IT STINKS.<br />

Virago, meditate over this story....<br />

Forster sat in the posh offices of Park Avenue’s most famous physician.<br />

”I’ve got this terrible problem,” he explained. ”Everything I eat turns to gas. I just had steak and potatoes<br />

and it turned to gas.”<br />

”That could be serious,” countered the doctor.<br />

”But fortunately,” said Forster, ”my gas is noiseless and odorless. Can you cure it?”<br />

”I’m sure that I’ll be able to help, but first I’m going to fit you with a hearing aid and then I’m going to fix<br />

your nose.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> fourth question:<br />

Question 4

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