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<strong>THE</strong> <strong>DHAMMAPADA</strong>: <strong>THE</strong> <strong>WAY</strong> <strong>OF</strong> <strong>THE</strong> <strong>BUDDHA</strong>, <strong>VOL</strong>. 9-<strong>12</strong> 69<br />

But when they meditate and they meet in underground basements they wear orange, they wear malas, they<br />

read the books, they listen to the tapes. <strong>The</strong>y have even translated a few books into Russian; just hand-written,<br />

those books are passed from one hand to another. But they are not here; it will be difficult for them to be here.<br />

One woman has written that she is ready to escape from Russia if somebody can help her so that she can<br />

remain here forever. She is ready to leave her husband, her home, her security, safety, everything.<br />

Soon from China and Russia also people will be coming here. This is becoming a universal temple and it is<br />

especially for those who have no more interest in religion. <strong>The</strong>y can understand me, because the priests have<br />

destroyed their interest in religion. <strong>The</strong> churches have destroyed any possibility for any intelligent person to be<br />

religious.<br />

<strong>The</strong> last question:<br />

Question 6<br />

BELOVED MASTER, WHY DO I AL<strong>WAY</strong>S GET SEXUALLY EXCITED WHEN I SEE A BEAUTIFUL<br />

WOMAN?<br />

Nanda Kishor, the first thing is that you are an Indian. It is very difficult for an Indian not to get excited when<br />

he sees a beautiful woman. Long, long repression... your unconscious is full of repressions so you don’t miss any<br />

opportunity.<br />

Of course you don’t show it. It is courageous of you that you have asked the question.<br />

Nothing is wrong in being sexually excited by seeing a beautiful woman. You are simply paying a compliment<br />

to her, that’s all. You are saying she is beautiful and attractive. In a more understanding world you will simply go<br />

to the woman and thank her and she will accept your compliment with gratitude. If a woman passes and nobody<br />

gets excited about her, nobody ever, that is really a miserable thing to go through.<br />

I was a professor in a university for a few years. One day it happened: I was sitting in the vice-chancellor’s<br />

room. A girl came, she was crying and weeping and she said that one boy was continually teasing her. He was<br />

throwing small stones at her, writing love letters to her.<br />

<strong>The</strong> vice-chancellor was, of course, very angry. I was sitting there so he told me, ”Can you help this girl? Can<br />

you console her?”<br />

I asked the girl, ”If nobody ever teased you and nobody ever wrote a love letter and nobody threw pebbles at<br />

you, would that be right? Would you be happy?”<br />

Her tears disappeared. For a moment she was shocked. <strong>The</strong>n she said, ”I have never thought of it in that way.”<br />

I said, ”That will be real misery! This simply shows that somebody is interested in you. Go to him and thank<br />

him! Nothing is wrong in it. He is simply a little foolish; he does not know how to pay compliments to a beautiful<br />

girl. Send the boy to me and I will teach him a few things! He needs a little tuition he has no intuition. And<br />

you need not be worried and you need not be crying: this is natural!”<br />

You are, Nanda Kishor, one of the species of animals. Man is an animal unless he becomes a buddha. If you<br />

become a buddha and then you are excited by seeing a beautiful woman, come and ask the question. <strong>The</strong>n it will<br />

be something worth asking because then it will be a problem. But you are not a buddha so meanwhile enjoy!<br />

Once you become a buddha, then I cannot help nobody can help. <strong>The</strong>n even if you want to get down, there is<br />

no way.<br />

It is an animal instinct, as much in animals as in human beings. Yes, it has to be transcended, but by repression<br />

you cannot transcend. Accept it. Acceptance is the first step towards transcendence. And don’t feel guilty about<br />

it it is not a sin.<br />

When you see a beautiful sunset you don’t feel any guilt. When you see a beautiful flower and you are attracted<br />

you don’t feel any guilt. When you see a beautiful face of a man or a woman, why should you feel guilty if you<br />

are attracted, if you want to look back, if you want to go close and have a closer look? Why should you feel guilty<br />

about it? But that’s how you have been taught for centuries. If you go closer to the woman, the woman will start<br />

shouting for the police and you will start finding excuses.<br />

Nobody looks into each other’s eyes. It is thought to be offensive. Even if you want to look into some beautiful<br />

eyes you cannot. Only three seconds is allowed. How all over the world people have come to agree on three seconds<br />

is something mysterious. Just for three seconds you can look at somebody and the other will not be offended. If<br />

you look more than that, the other feels offended.<br />

Maybe there is a reason. You don’t know how to look at the other; you don’t know how to look gracefully.<br />

Maybe your look is ugly and it is bound to be ugly if you are carrying much repressed sexuality. Your look will<br />

be pornographic. Deep down in your imagination you will be undressing the woman, and she feels offended. Who<br />

are you to undress her even in your fancy? Your look is ugly; it looks as if you are penetrating her being, as if you<br />

have found a substitute for sexual penetration through the eyes. You are reducing her into a thing, and nobody

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