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<strong>AllatRa</strong> <strong>by</strong> <strong>Anastasia</strong> <strong>Novykh</strong><br />

Mind through the system of consumption values, where satisfying the Animal nature's<br />

endless needs becomes of paramount importance.<br />

<strong>Anastasia</strong>: Why do people care so much and brood about someone's opinion about<br />

them?<br />

Rigden: Evaluating oneself and others and the resulting comparison actually originates<br />

from the animal part of man. This is an ancient instinct to be an "alpha male" or an<br />

"alpha female." The Animal nature always tends to look bigger and more beautiful in the<br />

eyes of the opponent. That is why a person is so concerned and broods about someone's<br />

opinion about him. Typically, this is limited <strong>by</strong> the desire to seem rather than to be. The<br />

person is worried, "What will others say?" But he does not even pause to think about<br />

who exactly is going to judge him. Man's fear of the opinion of other people's Animal<br />

nature comes from pride and self-esteem. Why? Because in this case, another person's<br />

criticism is seen as downplaying the significance of one's own Ego. At the same time, all<br />

of this is part of a single process – the fight for domination and power over other people.<br />

Hence, resentment grows, as well as depression and aggression.<br />

<strong>Anastasia</strong>: Please tell the readers what must be done to avoid all these situations?<br />

Rigden: Man (Personality) is located in the body, and body is the home territory of the<br />

Animal nature. If you know about possible attacks, you can always take a counterattack.<br />

It's like in intelligence. If you have to confront an enemy that is far better than you are in<br />

forces, it is important to know the quantity and quality of his force, deployment, tactics<br />

and techniques of his actions to create an effective counteraction. It will then increase<br />

your chances of victory.<br />

You must control the processes of comparison in your mind. As often as possible, you<br />

need to ask yourself questions of such nature as, for instance, "Where does the envy<br />

come from?", "What and who am I comparing?", "Is this comparison appropriate?"<br />

People cannot be "identical" – everyone is unique and different in their characteristics<br />

in build, genetics, in character, talents, the level of diligence and so on. People have<br />

specific features not only in their visible, but also in their invisible structure. Simply put,<br />

everybody is different, each has his own and everyone carries his own cross, his own<br />

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