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(Bk Business) Carol Kinsey Goman Ph.D.-The Nonverbal Advantage_ Secrets and Science of Body Language at Work -Berrett-Koehler Publishers (2008)

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Chapter 4: Face to Face<br />

75<br />

Reading Lips<br />

Mouth movements can give away all sorts <strong>of</strong> emotional<br />

clues. When people are nervous, their mouths become dry,<br />

so lip touching or licking becomes a pacifying behavior to<br />

cope with anxiety or concern. Biting the lower lip is also an<br />

indic<strong>at</strong>or <strong>of</strong> stress, <strong>of</strong>ten seen when people are trying to hold<br />

back a comment.<br />

Pursed lips (sometimes twisted to the side) are a common<br />

gesture when thinking over options. Pursing one’s lips can<br />

also be a signal th<strong>at</strong> the person is in disagreement with someone<br />

or something. This is <strong>of</strong>ten seen in court trials. While<br />

one <strong>at</strong>torney speaks, opposing counsel purses her lips in disagreement.<br />

Judges also do it as they<br />

disagree with <strong>at</strong>torneys <strong>at</strong> sidebar<br />

conferences.<br />

Pressing lips tightly together<br />

occurs when someone is angry,<br />

frustr<strong>at</strong>ed, dismayed, or trying to<br />

hold back inform<strong>at</strong>ion. Tight lips<br />

are almost always associ<strong>at</strong>ed with<br />

She’s considering her options.<br />

He’s holding<br />

something back.

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