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176 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Nonverbal</strong> <strong>Advantage</strong><br />

like anything goes. To be fair, most <strong>of</strong> my clients’ employees<br />

display common sense when making their fashion st<strong>at</strong>ements,<br />

but I’ve also seen some less-than-subtle expressions <strong>of</strong><br />

taste (or lack there<strong>of</strong>), even in critical engagements.”<br />

Clothes make a strong visual st<strong>at</strong>ement about how you<br />

see yourself. Comfort may aid productivity but, in this era <strong>of</strong><br />

“Me, Inc.” <strong>and</strong> “the Br<strong>and</strong> Called You,” are flip-flops, swe<strong>at</strong>s,<br />

jeans, <strong>and</strong> flashy or revealing clothing part <strong>of</strong> how you want<br />

to be judged? You might think you are expressing your individuality,<br />

but you could also be sending the message th<strong>at</strong><br />

you’re not a serious pr<strong>of</strong>essional.<br />

Clothing has an effect on both the wearer <strong>and</strong> the<br />

observer. It has been proven th<strong>at</strong> people are more likely to<br />

give money (tips, charitable don<strong>at</strong>ions, <strong>and</strong> the like) or inform<strong>at</strong>ion<br />

to someone if th<strong>at</strong> person is well dressed.<br />

TRY THIS<br />

Experiment with your appearance. Notice how people react<br />

to you when you wear certain colors or styles. <strong>The</strong>n, based<br />

on those reactions <strong>and</strong> your career goals, you can make an<br />

informed decision about how you want to “package” yourself.<br />

Appropri<strong>at</strong>e dress is a way <strong>of</strong> expressing respect for the<br />

situ<strong>at</strong>ion <strong>and</strong> the people in it, so your look may change<br />

depending on the business circumstances.<br />

Teresa is a management consultant—<strong>and</strong> a master <strong>at</strong><br />

dressing for the role. She loves to wear hot pink, turquoise,<br />

<strong>and</strong> fire-engine red silk dresses with stiletto heels <strong>and</strong> lots <strong>of</strong><br />

bling to work in her New York City <strong>of</strong>fice. But the moment<br />

she has to meet with a conserv<strong>at</strong>ive client or one who is going<br />

through difficult times, Teresa transforms herself into a prim<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>essional whose outfit m<strong>at</strong>ches the way she wants to be<br />

perceived. (In her words, “<strong>The</strong> success I dress for is th<strong>at</strong> <strong>of</strong><br />

my client.”) One member <strong>of</strong> her staff recalls meeting Teresa <strong>at</strong>

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