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Chapter 5: Talking with Your H<strong>and</strong>s<br />

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Th<strong>at</strong>’s a Wrap<br />

Wrapping up a chapter on h<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> arm gestures brings to<br />

mind the way directors wrap up a TV show—with the h<strong>and</strong><br />

moving horizontally across the neck, for example, to signal<br />

“cut,” or perhaps the gesture <strong>of</strong> the thumb <strong>and</strong> forefingers<br />

pulling away from each other as a sign to “stretch.” <strong>The</strong>y’re<br />

familiar signals th<strong>at</strong> send quick, well-understood messages.<br />

Not so well understood are many <strong>of</strong> the h<strong>and</strong> signals I’ve<br />

described in this chapter, <strong>and</strong> th<strong>at</strong> is why I encourage you<br />

to pay <strong>at</strong>tention to them. You’ll find th<strong>at</strong> wh<strong>at</strong> people do<br />

with their h<strong>and</strong>s tells you a lot more than they realize they’re<br />

telling you. <strong>The</strong>n do everything you can to make wh<strong>at</strong> they<br />

have “said” work for you.

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