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(Bk Business) Carol Kinsey Goman Ph.D.-The Nonverbal Advantage_ Secrets and Science of Body Language at Work -Berrett-Koehler Publishers (2008)

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Chapter 9: Transl<strong>at</strong>ing <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong> across Cultures<br />

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<strong>The</strong> crossed-fingers gesture (the American “Good luck!”<br />

signal—or the cancell<strong>at</strong>ion sign when telling a lie) has several<br />

other meanings. In Turkey the gesture is used to break a<br />

friendship. Elsewhere it is used to indic<strong>at</strong>e th<strong>at</strong> something is<br />

good or to swear an o<strong>at</strong>h—<strong>and</strong> as a symbol for copul<strong>at</strong>ion.<br />

<strong>The</strong> eyelid pull, in which the forefinger is placed on the<br />

cheekbone <strong>and</strong> pulled down to widen the eye a little, transl<strong>at</strong>es<br />

to “I am alert” in France, Germany, Yugoslavia, <strong>and</strong><br />

Turkey. In Spain <strong>and</strong> Italy, it means “Be alert.” In Austria it<br />

signals boredom. In Saudi Arabia touching the lower eyelid<br />

with the forefinger indic<strong>at</strong>es stupidity.<br />

Even the “okay” sign commonly used in the United St<strong>at</strong>es<br />

as signifying approval is a gesture th<strong>at</strong> has several different<br />

meanings according to the country. In France it means zero,<br />

in Japan it is a symbol for money, <strong>and</strong> in Brazil it carries a<br />

vulgar connot<strong>at</strong>ion.<br />

As globaliz<strong>at</strong>ion remains a major factor in business, organiz<strong>at</strong>ions<br />

<strong>and</strong> customers from a host <strong>of</strong> different cultures are<br />

insisting th<strong>at</strong> we become sensitive to their ways. Pr<strong>of</strong>essionals<br />

who try to negoti<strong>at</strong>e or sell or even interact without th<strong>at</strong><br />

sensitivity will undoubtedly lose business opportunities.<br />

It’s a fact <strong>of</strong> life. People from any culture prefer to do business<br />

with those who put them <strong>at</strong> ease. Although you can’t<br />

learn every gesture <strong>and</strong> facial expression used around the<br />

world, you can develop a curiosity about, <strong>and</strong> a deep respect<br />

for, the multitude <strong>of</strong> differences. It’s just good manners—<strong>and</strong><br />

good business!

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