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(Bk Business) Carol Kinsey Goman Ph.D.-The Nonverbal Advantage_ Secrets and Science of Body Language at Work -Berrett-Koehler Publishers (2008)

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100 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Nonverbal</strong> <strong>Advantage</strong><br />

everywhere. But the crossedarms<br />

gesture is more than just<br />

a not-so-encouraging audience<br />

posture. Research shows th<strong>at</strong><br />

when a listener folds his arms,<br />

not only does he have neg<strong>at</strong>ive<br />

thoughts about the presenter<br />

but he’s also paying less <strong>at</strong>tention<br />

to wh<strong>at</strong>’s being said.<br />

In one study groups <strong>of</strong> volunteers<br />

were invited to <strong>at</strong>tend<br />

a series <strong>of</strong> lectures. While doing<br />

so the first group was instructed<br />

<strong>The</strong> ultim<strong>at</strong>e closed gesture to keep legs <strong>and</strong> arms uncrossed<br />

<strong>and</strong> to take a casual, relaxed<br />

sitting position. Volunteers in the second group were asked<br />

to <strong>at</strong>tend the same lectures but to keep their arms tightly<br />

folded across their chests. <strong>The</strong> result showed th<strong>at</strong> the foldedarms<br />

group learned <strong>and</strong> retained 38 percent less than the<br />

uncrossed-arms group.<br />

TRY THIS<br />

So, wh<strong>at</strong> should you do if you find yourself addressing an<br />

audience with crossed arms? Do something th<strong>at</strong> encourages people<br />

to change position. I frequently open speeches by asking a series<br />

<strong>of</strong> questions to which audience members reply by raising their<br />

h<strong>and</strong>s. In smaller meetings, I might have <strong>at</strong>tendees break into<br />

couples or threesomes for a short discussion over a key issue. In<br />

a one-on-one encounter, I’d <strong>of</strong>fer the individual a cup <strong>of</strong> c<strong>of</strong>fee<br />

or tea (you try drinking with crossed arms!). <strong>The</strong>re are other<br />

things you can do: h<strong>and</strong> out pens, books, brochures, samples,<br />

or a written quiz. It doesn’t m<strong>at</strong>ter which str<strong>at</strong>egy you choose<br />

so long as people have to uncross their arms to respond.

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