(Bk Business) Carol Kinsey Goman Ph.D.-The Nonverbal Advantage_ Secrets and Science of Body Language at Work -Berrett-Koehler Publishers (2008)
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100 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Nonverbal</strong> <strong>Advantage</strong><br />
everywhere. But the crossedarms<br />
gesture is more than just<br />
a not-so-encouraging audience<br />
posture. Research shows th<strong>at</strong><br />
when a listener folds his arms,<br />
not only does he have neg<strong>at</strong>ive<br />
thoughts about the presenter<br />
but he’s also paying less <strong>at</strong>tention<br />
to wh<strong>at</strong>’s being said.<br />
In one study groups <strong>of</strong> volunteers<br />
were invited to <strong>at</strong>tend<br />
a series <strong>of</strong> lectures. While doing<br />
so the first group was instructed<br />
<strong>The</strong> ultim<strong>at</strong>e closed gesture to keep legs <strong>and</strong> arms uncrossed<br />
<strong>and</strong> to take a casual, relaxed<br />
sitting position. Volunteers in the second group were asked<br />
to <strong>at</strong>tend the same lectures but to keep their arms tightly<br />
folded across their chests. <strong>The</strong> result showed th<strong>at</strong> the foldedarms<br />
group learned <strong>and</strong> retained 38 percent less than the<br />
uncrossed-arms group.<br />
TRY THIS<br />
So, wh<strong>at</strong> should you do if you find yourself addressing an<br />
audience with crossed arms? Do something th<strong>at</strong> encourages people<br />
to change position. I frequently open speeches by asking a series<br />
<strong>of</strong> questions to which audience members reply by raising their<br />
h<strong>and</strong>s. In smaller meetings, I might have <strong>at</strong>tendees break into<br />
couples or threesomes for a short discussion over a key issue. In<br />
a one-on-one encounter, I’d <strong>of</strong>fer the individual a cup <strong>of</strong> c<strong>of</strong>fee<br />
or tea (you try drinking with crossed arms!). <strong>The</strong>re are other<br />
things you can do: h<strong>and</strong> out pens, books, brochures, samples,<br />
or a written quiz. It doesn’t m<strong>at</strong>ter which str<strong>at</strong>egy you choose<br />
so long as people have to uncross their arms to respond.