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Lesson 13 – Social Skill: Apologizing Summary and Rationale This social skills lesson teaches individuals to express regret or ask forgiveness from an individual or a group of individuals for something they did or for a particular situation. Concepts and Definitions Apologizing is a statement of regret one person makes to another individual or group of people for something they did, or something that they may have caused to happen. Objectives – As a result of this lesson the group members will: 1. Describe the importance of apologizing. 2. Perform the steps of apologizing during the session. 3. Perform the steps of apologizing in real life situations. National Institute of Corrections Apologizing Thinking for a Change Lesson 13 - 1
Major Activities Activity 1: Homework Review Activity 2: Overview of Social Skill Activity 3: Model the Skill Activity 4: Discuss Modeling Display Activity 5: Group Members Role Play Skill Supplements Charts – Make before facilitating lesson. (See supplement section in each lesson for full text of chart page.) Denoted in lesson plan with this symbol: Activity 6: Discuss Role Play Activity 7: Repeat Activities 5 and 6 with all Group Members Activity 8: Assign Homework Activity 9: Wrap-up Handouts – Make copies before lesson. (See supplement section of each lesson for camera ready pages.) Denoted in lesson plan with this symbol: H-13-1-Pocket Skill Cards H-13-2-Homework Sheet Presentation Slides – Make transparencies if projector is not available. (See supplement section of each lesson for camera ready pages.) Denoted in lesson plan with this symbol: P-13-1-Lesson Title P-13-2-Making a Complaint P-13-4-Homework P-13-4-Homework, continued P-13-5–Apologizing Definition P-13-6–Apologizing Skill Steps National Institute of Corrections Apologizing Thinking for a Change Lesson 13 - 2
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Copyright © 2011, Jack Bush, Barry
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Foreword Over the last six decades,
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practical manner. This was one of N
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The following icons outline when to
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Delivery The curriculum has been re
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Group Norms The program should also
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Acknowledgements The authors wish t
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4. Social Skills are behaviors or a
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Content Notes Activity 1: Introduct
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Content This idea - that thinking c
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Content Notes Discuss Example This
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Content Notes Discuss Example I did
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Content Notes These are some great
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Content Notes schedule. Tell group
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Lesson 2 - Social Skill: Active Lis
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Equipment Supplies Easel (chart sta
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Content Notes Skills are abilities
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Content Notes Activity 2: Overview
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Content Notes that a thinking step
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Content and I must listen to him/he
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Content Notes was that modeled? Wha
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Content Notes To the Co-actor How d
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Content Activity 7: Repeat Activiti
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Active Listening 1. Look at the per
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Major Activities Activity 1: Homewo
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Content Activity 1: Homework Review
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Content Notes Define the Skill Who
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Content was that about? (Answer: It
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Content Notes skill. Identify Role
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Content Who would like to begin? Ac
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Content every skill is made up of a
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Content Notes the mouth. I have a v
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Content In step 1, did _____ “tun
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Content Notes do a role play. Remin
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Content knowing what he/she is feel
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Content To the Main Actor How well
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Content Notes the one you just role
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Knowing Your Feelings 1. Tune in to
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1. What happened when you did the h
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2. Feelings are emotions that go al
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1. 2. Content Activity 1: Homework
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Content you have learned before our
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Content How would you describe the
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Content You can’t trust the polic
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Content Activity 6: Predict Future
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Thoughts: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9
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Objective process means without: bl
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Supplements Charts - Make before fa
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Content fear, frustration, exciteme
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Content For Jones Let’s have anot
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Content You have learned and practi
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Content Notes Activity 3: Practice
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Content Feelings leading Jim to bre
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Content Part 3 - Feelings Now let
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Content We will practice step 3 - u
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Homework Sheet: Lesson 8 Think of a
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Content Will I feel okay about myse
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Content different new thoughts as y
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Content Summary and Transition Good
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Homework Sheet: Lesson 9 Watch for
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Content A thinking check-in has 4 p
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Content 3. Now, tell us how your th
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Content Great job! Who wants to go
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Content Bender’s face. Step 2:: C
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Content Evaluate means taking time
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Content Goal and Gather Information
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Content my warning signs: physical
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Modeling Display - Shewan and Ms. S
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Skill 3: Set a Goal and Gather Info
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Problem Solving Skill 3: Set a Goal
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*Supplements Charts - Make before f
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Problem Solving Skills 1, 2, and 3
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