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A House with Two Rooms - The Advocates for Human Rights

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in a university. We are looked at as if we came here to take from them what<br />

belongs to them. 380<br />

Another interviewee noted that there is a perception that African Americans “accused us of taking<br />

over their community.” 381 “African Americans are always afraid that Africans coming here will take<br />

their jobs and that white people like Africans better. It’s a myth…it’s a divide-and-rule tactic.” 382<br />

Conflicts between recent African immigrants and African Americans can become very dangerous<br />

when played out amongst youth. Interviewees in Minnesota reported these conflicts as a problem in<br />

schools, and this very serious concern <strong>for</strong> youth was documented in other sources as well. 383 “African<br />

pupils are singled out because of their accents and non-trendy dress and…the harassment exceeds<br />

normal middle-school-age teasing…” 384 In Staten Island, a service provider noted that relations got<br />

so bad that a group of African children <strong>for</strong>med a group <strong>for</strong> protection. One member of that group, a<br />

Liberian, shot another student in 2005 and was convicted of murder. 385<br />

An African American community leader in Minnesota noted that, although initiatives to bring<br />

African immigrants and African Americans together have been undertaken, they are often “one-shot”<br />

ef<strong>for</strong>ts and there is little sustained opportunity. 386 He noted that the African American community<br />

does sometimes perceive immigrants, whether from Africa or elsewhere, as “taking something” such<br />

as opportunities, from established communities. 387 He noted that African immigrants and African<br />

Americans have common problems as people of color. According to him, those mutual concerns<br />

should lead to mutual understanding and collaborative work on issues such as education, health<br />

disparities, and other social and economic rights. 388<br />

Gender Role Reversals<br />

Liberian women in the United States have found new economic and educational opportunities. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

have found increased job prospects, thus garnering greater economic power and independence <strong>for</strong><br />

themselves. Furthermore, because many Liberian women work in the health care industry, they have<br />

the opportunity to work overtime and possibly make more money than their partners. 389<br />

New opportunities in the diaspora have led to a shift in gender roles from traditional lifestyles in<br />

Liberia where, according to one community leader, “our moms were the ones who were involved in<br />

our lives…dad brought home the money.” 390 Here in the diaspora, “most women in our community<br />

make more money than men” and they work more hours, meaning that “they’re not home to take care<br />

of kids, not home to cook <strong>for</strong> their husbands.” 391<br />

Both men and women interviewees reported that some Liberian men find the altered gender roles and<br />

power structure in the United States difficult to accept. 392 “<strong>The</strong> men feel less of a man…it is about<br />

348

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