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Money is important. Or else we’re reduced to bitcoins or to barter, for our<br />

food, clothing, and shelter. So, when we’re out of work, unless we have<br />

huge amounts of money in our savings account or investments, we are<br />

inevitably thinking: “<strong>What</strong> am I going to do, so that I have enough money<br />

to put food on the table, clothes on my back, and a roof over our heads for<br />

myself—and for my family or partner (if I have one)?”<br />

Happiness is important, too. So, we may find ourselves thinking: “How<br />

much do I really need to be earning, for me to be truly happy with my<br />

life?”<br />

Are these two worries—money and happiness—related? Can money<br />

buy happiness?<br />

Partly, it turns out. Partly. A study, published in 2010, of the responses<br />

of 450,000 people in the U.S. to a daily survey, found that the less money<br />

they made, the more unhappy they tended to be, day after day. 6 No<br />

surprise, there. And, obviously, the more money they made, measured in<br />

terms of percentage improvement, the happier they tended to be, as<br />

measured <strong>by</strong> the frequency and intensity of moments of smiling, laughter,<br />

affection, and joy all day long, vs. moments of sadness, worry, and stress.<br />

So, money does buy happiness. But only up to a point. That point was<br />

found to be around $75,000 annual income (at the end of 2011, median<br />

household income was $51,413 7 ). If people made more money than<br />

$75,000, it of course further improved their satisfaction with how their life<br />

was going, but it did not increase their happiness. Above $75,000, they<br />

started to report reduced ability to spend time with people they liked, to<br />

enjoy leisure, and to savor small pleasures. Happiness depends on things<br />

like that, and on other factors too: good health, a loving relationship,<br />

loving friends, a feeling of competence, gaining mastery, respect, praise,<br />

or even love, because we are really good at what we do.<br />

So, this petal cannot be filled out all <strong>by</strong> itself. It is inextricably tied to<br />

the other petals—most particularly, to what you love to do, and where you<br />

love to do it.<br />

Still, salary is something you must think out ahead of time, when you’re<br />

contemplating your ideal job or career. Level goes hand in hand with<br />

salary, of course. So here are a couple of questions you should be asking<br />

yourself:<br />

1. At what level would you like to work, in your ideal job?

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