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Why Bad: Too broad. Doesn’t really offer any help in making a decision. And<br />

it isn’t prioritized, as a good petal must be.<br />

Petal Seven, Worksheet #1<br />

A CHART: WHAT I LIKED OR DISLIKED ABOUT PLACES I HAVE<br />

LIVED<br />

Directions for doing this exercise:<br />

Copy the chart found on this page, onto a larger (11 x 17-inch) piece of<br />

paper or cardboard, which you can obtain from any arts and crafts store or<br />

supermarket, in your town or city. And if you are doing this exercise with<br />

a partner, make a <strong>copy</strong> for them too, so that each of you is working on a<br />

clean <strong>copy</strong> of your own, and can follow these instructions independently.<br />

Now, as to how you fill out this chart:<br />

COLUMN 1 In Column 1, you should list all the places where you have<br />

ever lived. (If you are doing this exercise with a partner, they should<br />

make their own list on their own worksheet.)<br />

COLUMN 2 In Column 2, you should list all the factors you disliked<br />

(and still do) about each place. The negative factors do not have to be<br />

put exactly opposite the place in Column 1. The names in Column 1<br />

exist simply as pegs on which to hang your memory.<br />

If the same factors keep repeating, just put a check mark after the first<br />

listing of that factor, every time it repeats.<br />

Keep going until you have listed all the factors you disliked or hated<br />

about each and every place you named in Column 1. Now, in effect,<br />

throw away Column 1; discard it from your thoughts. The negative<br />

factors were what you were after. Column 1 has served its purpose.<br />

(As you go, if you recall some things you liked about any place, list<br />

those factors at the bottom of the next column, Column 3.)<br />

COLUMN 3 Look at Column 2, your list of negative factors, and in<br />

Column 3 try to list each one’s opposite (or near opposite). For example,<br />

“the sun never shone, there” would, in Column 3, be turned into “mostly<br />

sunny, all year-round.” It will not always be the exact opposite. For

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