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path during all this Informational Interviewing. And that employer may be<br />

so impressed with you, that they want to hire you, on the spot. So, it’s<br />

possible that you’d get offered a job while you’re still doing your<br />

information gathering. Not very likely, but possible. And if that happens,<br />

what should you say?<br />

Well, if you’re desperate, you will probably have to say yes. I remember<br />

one wintertime when I was in my thirties, with a family of five, when I had<br />

just gone through the knee of my last pair of pants, we were burning pieces<br />

of old furniture in our fireplace to stay warm, the legs on our bed had just<br />

broken, and we were eating spaghetti until it was coming out our ears. In<br />

such a situation, you can’t afford to be picky. You’ve got to put food on<br />

the table, and stave off the debt-collectors. Now.<br />

But if you’re not desperate, if you have time to be more careful, then<br />

you respond to the job offer in a way that will buy you some time. You tell<br />

them what you’re doing: that the average job-hunter tries to screen a job<br />

after they take it. But you are examining careers, fields, industries, jobs,<br />

and particular organizations before you decide where you would do your<br />

best and most effective work. And you’re sure this employer would do the<br />

same, if they were in your shoes. (If they’re not impressed with your<br />

thoroughness and professionalism, at this point, then I assure you this is<br />

not a place where you want to work.)<br />

Add that your informational interviewing isn’t finished yet, so it would<br />

be premature for you to accept their job offer, until you’re sure that this is<br />

the place where you could be most effective, and do your best work.<br />

Then, you add: “Of course, I’m tickled pink that you would want me to<br />

be working here. And when I’ve finished my personal survey, I’ll be glad<br />

to get back to you about this, as my preliminary impression is that this is<br />

the kind of place I’d like to work in, and the kind of people I’d like to<br />

work for, and the kind of people I’d like to work with.”<br />

In other words, if you’re not desperate yet, you don’t walk immediately<br />

through any opened doors, but neither should you allow them to shut.<br />

As I said, this scenario is highly unlikely. You’re networking with<br />

workers. But it’s nice to be prepared ahead of time, in your mind, just in<br />

case it does ever happen.<br />

A Final Word: Contacts

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