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Ten Things We Can Do to Deal with<br />

Our Feelings, When We Are<br />

Unemployed<br />

1. We can catch up on our sleep, even if it means we have to<br />

take naps during the day because our attempt to sleep at<br />

nighttime is, at the moment, a disaster. We tend to feel<br />

depressed if we are short on our sleep, or our body is<br />

otherwise run-down.<br />

There are two states that can be easily confused:<br />

First of all, the world never looks bright or happy to us<br />

when we are very short on sleep.<br />

Secondly, the world never looks bright or happy to us<br />

when we are feeling depressed.<br />

It is therefore easy to confuse the two feeling-states. Over<br />

the years, I have seen many job-hunters who first thought<br />

they were really depressed over their situation, later<br />

discover they were really depressed just because they were<br />

so tired. Or a bit of both. Anyway, sleep or nap, we often<br />

turn into happier, more upbeat people, just <strong>by</strong> catching up<br />

on our sleep. This can make us feel better—sometimes<br />

much better.<br />

2. There are other things that we can do to keep ourselves<br />

more physically fit while unemployed. Job-hunters have<br />

told me they found it important to:<br />

get regular exercise, involving a daily walk;<br />

drink plenty of water each day (this seems silly, but I<br />

found out we tend to skip the water, and get dehydrated,<br />

when we’re out of work);<br />

eliminate sugar as much as possible from the diet;<br />

take supplementary vitamins daily (no matter how many<br />

doctors and nutritionists try to tell us that we already get

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